MattThorn
MattThorn
MattThorn

Regardless of the reliability of the numbers, the general conclusion holds, I think: finding true love is tough, but it can happen. My wife and I are evidence (if not proof) supporting that idea.

This is good news.

Bizarre. I wonder how many vulvas the men saying those things have actually seen in person (free of charge). I'm thinking very few, or possibly none. Personally, I've never met a vulva I didn't like. (I wish I could say the same for all their owners.)

Pro tip: Next time you screw up at your job, you should try 1) not apologizing and 2) explaining to your boss that your intentions were good. That'll totally negate all the concrete damage your screw-up caused!

No. No, no, no, no, no. She most decidedly did NOT apologize. Look over her statement carefully. Words that are noticeably absent are "sorry," "apology," "apologize," "regret," "remorse." These are not "good things." Not by a long shot. The original page didn't say a damned thing about slavery or about a

FOO will get the job done, but, yeah, a certain staleness is inevitable. For almost a year I was giving my wife orgasms using what I thought were "tried and true" techniques before she finally came out and told me quite explicitly that she liked to be touched "just so," and it was something I would never have thought

Some women—particularly young women—are really reluctant to talk about what they want and what feels good. It's partly embarrassment and partly, I think, a romanticized notion that somehow you will just know, thanks to the magic of your bond. As unromantic as it sounds, it sort of does have to be like an instruction

I think maybe we each use or don't use social media according to our own needs and tastes and that maybe we don't need to worry much about how other people do or don't use them.

All of this sales data, according to the Journal, could help us "understand the male psyche, its anxieties and inadequacies" – which is why they've titled this article "This chart proves women are smarter than men."

Kate, juliarams is on to your plot to drive her insane.

The worst present I ever got anyone I gave to my first wife on the first Christmas of our marriage: an exercycle. My excuse is that I was 22. (She was 38.) She was extremely upset. Obviously. Good god, what was I thinking? Apparently my punishment was to have eighteen years of marital misery.

Sorry, Lindy. Looking over the Kanye piece again, you aren't lambasting him (well, apart from the lengthy laugh). I suppose I was reacting more to the comments in reaction to the piece. But I still think the Questlove piece is oddly effusive, and I wondered why you didn't link directly to his posts or to the original

Your URL is missing a "w." Here it is.

So, Jezebel doesn't like Kanye (well, neither do I), so he gets lambasted for saying something...positive? But Jezebel loves Questlove (well, so do I), so he gets praised to the heavens for doing something decent after doing something really, truly horrible that Jezebel not only did not cover but doesn't even want to

Wait, Joan Rivers is still alive?

You suffered on the cross on my behalf, Rebecca, which makes you my Jesus.

Yep. It just takes a lot of exploration and experimentation, done together. If you're compatible and really enjoy each other's company, you feed off each other's excitement and achieve a kind of "resonance." My wife gets excited, and I responded by getting more excited, and my wife responds with more excitement. This

After reading this, I tried to remember the first time I told my wife I loved her. Neither of us can remember, but we're certain I said it first. I can't remember if it was during PCTI (FTLM/AMD), but from the start, our sex has always been intensely spiritual and bonding for me. For her, it's always been like, "Wow,

I think it's about 1) experience and 2) compatibility. My wife, 38, orgasms a lot during sex, and during intercourse per se she orgasms maybe half the time. We both had a lot of experience before meeting (not quite two years ago), and we communicate a lot. It's the most stress-free, happy sex I've ever had, and I