With you on that. It's not one of my strengths. Sex with someone new = "awesome". Sex with an established partner = "eh. I'd rather just take care of my own business". In the mean time, I put out because I care about the other person, but don't get a ton out of it. Working on it in therapy.

Also, a little bit of fake-it-til-you-make-it isn't as bad as it sounds when it comes to sex. As Frank Kermit mentions, "If you want to protect the monogamy of your relationship, make the effort to sexually satisfy your partner, or risk pushing your partner away."

I've noticed quite recently that in all of my relationships, I have never been the one to initiate sex. I would be quite happy in a sex-less relationship. I don't think that it's a libido issue, because I masturbate quite frequently, but having actual sex with another person doesn't really intrigue me.

Kevin Spacey... wouldn't be interested in you like that. I happen to know.

You're a sexual predator.

That's right up there with 'beating the pussy up' in the men-hate-women-but-like-sex-with-them sweepstakes.

i am really tired of having to say this, but let's try again:

I hate Miley ' s racist/ableist bullshit, but I really do feel like she has this weirdly intelligent, insightful view of the entertainment industry and a large part of me wonders if she's just kind of trolling all of us with her ridiculousness. Also I'm excited for Bangerz because Sky Ferreira deserves way more…

cannabis

"Let me be clear" indeed.

can. not. wait

So what's the advice for people who don't know who they are?

I've got the black lung pop

Why is this issue so hard to understand for people? The one and only time where painting your face black is not offensive: When you're not portraying a black person.

It's harassment. Even if this boy isn't charged with anything, he should be kicked out of school. He didn't write smutty fan-fiction. He posted a classmates name on a school forum and encouraged others to rape her. He told people where she lived. He did this to intimidate her. If he was just telling a friend verbally…

I can't think of any other scenario where a person can say no to a request, and it is socially acceptable (or expected), to continue to beg, plead, cajole, etc until you get what you want.

Huh. Many of these were what I'd consider conventionally attractive people, and I had that reaction a couple of times.