Also, thanks for the Okcupid tip - I’ll have to check that out. My profile is pretty much dormant.

It seems like it is becoming more common and accepted, although that could be a perception bias on my part. My husband and I are only marginally poly - he prefers that I do not sleep with other men (only women), which I recognize has some issues but as my partner, I respect his preferences. He isn’t terrible dedicated…

I know some people who really don’t want to meet their partner’s other people. I can understand that, although I am perfectly willing to meet anyone my husband dates. I could use more lady friends honestly, I would happily be friends with anyone he dates. He knows my kind-of girlfriend and I’ve met her husband. I do…

My ideal, personally, is people in other open relationships. My lady friend is married as well, and prefers to date other married people. It is a hell of a lot easier to understand that you are not the primary partner when you are in the same situation. That said, things like Tinder don’t exactly filter that, so other…

I know that online dating opens a vast new world of people with which to communicate but ... don’t we all run the same risk of meeting a married person “in real life?” Like, ages ago I dated a dude who turned out to have a girlfriend. I had no idea until I saw them together. This is a thing that happens. I am not sure…

Oh god yes please I am currently surrounded in mini Almond Joy wrappers.

PMSing aggressively and this tipped me over the edge.

Seriously, I live in Texas. I don’t wear leggings in the summer - because I’m not wearing pants and what I am wearing is so small these dudes would have a heart attack.

Yeah I always had awkward ankle bagging when I wore them as a kid. I was ... a lot skinnier then.

This is a workout outfit. Wtf is wrong with wearing leggings and a tank to work out in? Or in life if you want. I would wear this to the gym and then to the store and be all sweaty and IN DREADED LEGGINGS and these dicks could suck my pit sweat.

I currently own a pair of stirrup leggings and ... seriously, there is a reason for that stirrup. I’m tall and it is nice to not have my leggings scootching back up my calves all day.

I hear you on that one - too much middle squish going on. BUT, girl, if you want to rock it, rock it.

I was at a cat cafe yesterday (it was disappointingly poorly run) and watched a cat take a dump in a guitar case that had been converted into a cat bed. Cat gave no fucks about the people.

What the fuck. What the fuck??

Probably the same people who refuse to use a butter dish or put it in the fridge. My in-laws are horrified that I leave the butter out in a butter dish. It doesn’t go bad. I have never had it go bad (I did once have it melt because I set it on the windowsill and the sun got unexpectedly bright). I am still alive and…

Yeah, I don’t really mind the free-range kids thing, but the general assumption is that the kid is mature and capable enough to handle the situation. A 10 year old riding around town on a bike, when the parents are comfortable and know they can trust their child, cool. Even a younger child playing in a public area in…

This is the weirdest argument, really. Four year olds are not capable of managing themselves, and store clerks are not responsible for random unsupervised children in their store. That’s not their job! Even if the kid is well behaved, it’s still a small child! If I’m doing my job, I do not have time or attention to…

Yeah, it is kind of pretty there, especially on the dark hair. I have a short dark bob, and could potentially do this if I used a lot of hairspray and remembered not to touch my hair. It wouldn’t last TOO long, but it could be interesting. If it leaves gold stripes when it comes apart - like the hair in that bunch is…

I am very intrigued by these products but I wish facebook would stop advertising them to me all the time - and that it would stop using language about what “all women” do while showing really thin, pretty women. I think it’s just a knee-jerk reaction on my part, since that type of language is starting to be attached…

I personally sort of think the only appropriate response to “What do I do when internet trolls attack me for writing my opinion and my feelings are hurt?” is “that’s because they are fucking horrible people and you have a right to be upset!” Followed maybe by some strategies for managing that type of upset.