KnidosOfAphrodite
KnidosOfAphrodite
KnidosOfAphrodite

Not all countries.

My roomie’s cat likes to sit on those whenever we play D&D. He apparently finds them comfy. I swear, he’s the weirdest cat I’ve ever met.

Just metaphorically, in a court room, around the truth.

Also this, which cracks me up every time.

Does that mean they “lost their virginity” just two years ago? Because I bet they would *hate* if people believed that.

I’m a mostly straight male and I lust after Spike. And Giles. And Mal. And Wash.

I said ‘mostly’, okay?

Seconded!

I like you, too. But I lust Spike.

(the tagline of which is “Putting sweet D in the tender V since 2013”)

I’d consider him a solid 9.5 in terms of punchability.

I am so sorry. Sounds like there are a lot of dudes willing to put up with the Missing Stair rather than being a good friend/ally/fucking person. I used to work in victim services and had a lot of clients who were being stalked and they all felt better and safer for having talked to me and co-creating a safety play.

Sorry if this comes off as being angry.

I’m so glad that you’re staying safe, it sounds like you’re very sensible and although I didn’t comment I have been thinking of you and your situation. I had a guy (much older than me, a security guard) at my retail job when I was 16 do a similar thing by corning me and asking me out when I was walking alone to my car

I read about this this week and actually thought of your previous post, in case it’s helpful:

I didn't originally comment on your initial post, but am very glad you are safe and have set clear boundaries, and have people around you that know what is going on. All the best *hugs*

Hey honey, it’s not your fault!

I agree with the idea of creating a new gmail (yourname5678@gmail.com for example) or whatnot just for the sole purpose of letting him know that you just aren’t interested. I get that you’re freaked out about this, but I think acting like this is totally a non-threatening situation first will be to your advantage. “

I agree that this is beyond socially awkward. It’s very aggressive and I would be afraid too.

I would make sure that other friends know what is going on, and that he knows that they know, so that he will not feel as safe stalking you, pressuring you, and frightening you. Is there anyone in your group who you think would understand this situation from your point of view and not minimize it or make excuses for

I think you need to tell him flat-out that he’s crossing a lot of boundaries, and that you aren’t interested in any sort of relationship with him-not game playing, not friends, not romance-because he makes you uncomfortable.
Do you have his email or can you contact him through FB or some other means where 1) you don’t