I am from the U.S. and am now living in Norway, and while I agree with you about not going broke from health care, I have found that many of the medications that were available to me, for example, over the counter at home, are not even offered through prescription here in Norway, nor can you find them in Sweden…

I come from the United States, but I live in Norway now, and I've always had my dogs neutered. So when we got our dog in Norway, the first thing I wanted to know was when were we going to have him neutered. And my husband informed me that people in Norway don't do that. So I started inquiring, and sure enough, he was…

She's promised to me!

Their lawyer was a Butterfingers and dropped the case.

It was a matter be-Twix them and their stockholders.

I am just now watching The Rape of Europa because of the recommendations from this article, and I just came to the part about Rose Valland's heroism. What a courageous woman. I'm only about halfway through the movie so far. I don't know that I could have acted as bravely or as selflessly as these people did. Such acts…

We've just started watching House of Cards, and my husband told his friend this, and he goes, "Oh! BLAH!!! HUGE SPOILER! CAN YOU BELIEVE HUGE SPOILER?" My husband had a fit. Luckily he didn't tell me what happened and kept the secret to himself. We have only been watching one episode a night and have not binge watched…

Did he say fucking or plucking? :)

That's great on ordering the book!

Glad to hear that it has quietened down for you!

I've been fairly entertained by his posts here on Jez the last few days, until I saw that he was, indeed, stalking you and saw what he wrote here in this post. That really disturbed me. He seems a sick individual. I would guess that if he is suspended, he might show up as something else. Is he going by the same…

Ok. I was just looking at theadlerian's posts to see what a complete crazy ass he is, and now I'm truly disturbed at the post below yours. You said that you reported him. I hope that the moderators are doing something about it. I wanted to report him, too, the other day, but I didn't know how to do it, and I wasn't…

Every single thing that you have written, I have been there and experienced myself. I call it mothering. I think you know what I mean. I mothered my partner to the point that I could not be his lover any more, so I stopped being his mother. You don't have clean underwear to wear because you didn't wash? That's really…

That book costs $100 on amazon!

I'm not a mental health professional, but it's likely that many of his problems stem from untreated or not wholly treated ADD symptoms. He should see his doctor. But be advised that many doctors do not take adult ADD and its ramifications on relationships seriously—they usually only focus on work productivity. He…

Things changed dramatically, I have to say, over the course of two years. It took a lot of therapy, head butting, bickering, and learning how to talk to each other better. It was tough. We took some time apart, which helped me gain some clarity that I would otherwise not have gotten and desperately needed to…

Isn't this the same video twice? Or is there a difference I'm just not getting? Either way, I enjoyed hearing the song twice.

You are still at that place, emotionally, where your brain is doing everything within its power to protect itself, which is very natural. Took me a long time to learn that that is what I did as well (and some therapy). If you haven't gotten some therapy and/or counseling, please do that if you can and/or are able. I…

That book will help you learn how to detach. It helped me a lot. So so so so much. Listen, he has to take responsibility for his behavior and for the way he treats you. One way he "rewards" himself is by self-medicating by picking fights with you. I am going to go out on a limb and guess that every time you guys have…

People who post that kind of thing don't care that it is triggering to rape survivors. They likely don't know what "triggering" even means. They probably do not even realize that people in their own lives have been raped and have been affected by it. It is just a concept to them. They have likely never been physically…