Well, if you want to have sex, but cannot find anyone suitable to have sex with, that kinda only leaves to options; continue not having sex or paying for it.

Amber rose is super-duper hot...

"Oh, Honey, you have a good time having sex with your boy-toy. I'll just stay home and watch netflix tonight, theres a new episode of 'House of Cards' I've yet to see"

I'd like to hear from the husband. Men get very insecure over ability (or lack thereof) to please a partner. This woman's husband lives the reality, every day, of having an partner he cannot satisfy. How do you deal with that?

Look up Taylor Rain. Once my favorite porn star, now a successful real estate agent.

I don't get the sarcasm going on here. Can you imagine how shattering it is to receive a letter addressing you in the gender you've been labeled against your will? I thought Jezebel writers and readers were a group overwhelmingly supportive of progressivism. What's wrong with more inclusivity, even if it is on a…

Or I could just lower my standards. Either way, it's not a very good feeling.

bump for visibility.

What if you're not doing anything creepy and trying to be super considerate, but noone wants to dance with you?

That response letter sounds like a lie. Just putting it out there, this sounds like a "damage-control" type response. He only asked her out because she's hot now. Most people don't reach out to people from their past to make friends, they make friend with the people they know at the present.

honestly, if you bullied someone when you were a teen, presumably leaving them with years of issues, and you want to make them feel better - go kill yourself.

I'm insecure, yeah, but I'm also quite confident. I'll feel great about myself for the most part; I'm just not being treated how I'd like to be, for something I can't do anything about. It would just be nice not to be immediately dismissed immediately, so often. Noone can see my loving attitude at a bar or concert;…

If I'm not dating like a beast it's cause I get turned down a lot (or my standards are too high, the crux of this conversation). Jesus, people act like you can just date whoever you want to. I haven't said anything concrete about my views on dating and women, aside from the fact that I think women would overlook my…

Who said I was waiting to date? I'm very personable, and feel like I connect with a lot of the people I go out with (why, otherwise, would I ask them out?) I don't need someone to "care about me" so early in the game, I just need them to be more receptive. I can't be tall, but I try to be generous, and that would be…

How do you know you're what your "equal" is? I'm definitely getting the impression I'd get more dates if I went out with people I wasn't attracted to, but that's not really fair to anybody.

I hope your right. I'm 25, educated, good job, yada yada, but that's not visible. What is visible is that I'm 5'2, and most women aren't really interested in that. I'm just grateful that I'm in excellent physical, mental, and financial health. In 20 years, once I'm established, I'm gonna date like a beast.

I hope your right. I'm 25, educated, good job, yada yada, but that's not visible. What is visible is that I'm 5'2, and most women aren't really interested in that. I'm just grateful that I'm in excellent physical, mental, and financial health. In 20 years, once I'm established, I'm gonna date like a beast.

oh wow, a child doesn't like fine cuisine!? NO WAY. Children are totally the best judges of food and wine.

In my opinion, this doesn't go far enough. Children who bully other children should be executed in front of the parents who allowed them to become so rotten.

Give the lady a medal! Seriously. Granted, I was bullied in school, but children who victimize other children should be gassed before they grow up and learn how to hide and socialize their sadism.