NB: I have now moved out and am fully self-supporting. I don’t plan on asking them for anything ever again and I know that compared to many other queer people I have been VERY lucky. I would never behave like this to anyone else but god damn it felt good to have the upper hand for once.

i love this so much

So my parents are homophobes - my mother pretty virulently, my father in the sense that he never ever intervened in my mother’s behaviour, despite my parents getting called into school during my teens because I was obviously suicidal.

this is my nightmare. Have come so close too often

Red flags I would neverwrite out in my profile, but am silently noting and swiping left at (UK lesbian edition):

You feel me. Even with the privilege that allowed us to get a tertiary education, it is an absolute grind turning that education into any kind of job stability. I hope you get your lucky break (or breaks) soon, it sounds like you work really hard and have your head screwed on.

YES, THANK YOU.

Definitely not just you. Horrifyingly lazy name.

I keep my old diaries in the hope that one day I’ll be able to read them without still being able to identify with my 11 year old self’s incipient chronic depression.

I love that they packed two cliches into one: evil twin and evil Brit.

I hope it’s as weird and devastating as Young Adult. That wrecked me.

For a long time, especially while they were doing the suggestive blackboard quotations in every homeroom the Liars had, I was convinced that A was for Author because it is literally impossible for one person in Rosewood to have masterminded so much interference.

Viewed from the vantage of the Tumblrverse, is Kabbalah cultural appropriation?

The correct response to the Prince Albert in a Can prank should be:

Sorry, I missed the bit about Demi! But agree with you about that being a good example of rewriting scripts.

thank you! That’s very kind of you to say, will try to reframe it like that in my own mind <3

thank you! And it sounds like you really have their backs : )

Wow, that is intensely lonely. I hope you are feeling at least somewhat better now.

Of course we did. Plus the requisite wincing in volleyball.

Thank you, that’s very kind of you. I’m glad to hear you and your mother are also on the mend.