So, yeah, you were an asshole for sleeping with B, specifically.

It’s bizarre to read because he’s so open about his past mistakes and clearly realizes they had a catastrophic impact on the relationship and eradicated her trust, but still seems to react to her calling him out in a weird way; “yeah I fucked up because I always fuck up but you trot out the whole litany here!”

I think OoT sowed bitterness, discord and resentment early on, and now he’s reaping a particularly bitter harvest - something that I feel he deserves.

I’m curious, how did the toothless dirtbag react when the other guy said that stuff to him? 👀

Was married to someone very similar and agree with everything you stated. It would be a huge relief to his wife if he left the marriage. I know it was when my ex suddenly left 2 months after begging for another chance when I said I wanted a divorce. Yes, breaking up a marriage sucks and hurts, but mostly I was SO SO…

I’m not going to lie:

Not only is it upsetting how mad he’s getting mad at his wife, but the whole thing reeks of “what is he NOT saying?”

Yeah definitely some red flags when he complains about his kids getting in the way of his life and happiness and what he thinks he deserves. Hopefully he’ll just abandon his family and they can move on without him instead.

That guy in the first letter is emblematic of 80% of Gamergaters

but I have come to a point that I resent my kids

Thank you, Atrelya. I was scrolling through the comments waiting to find SOMEONE who saw what I did: Ulimately OoT wants to shirk his responsibility and blame the most innocent ones in this whole mess: his kids.

I think the first letter writer is an abusive husband? Like definitely economically, but it sounds like verbally, emotionally? I kept thinking if his poor wife was my friend.

Fucking preach.

Absolutely agreed, without reservation or qualification.

Men think so little of women that when a woman is giving a living wage it literally makes their dicks soft. Your body is proving that your entire self worth is predicated on women being inferior. That’s fucking hilarious and pathetic.

For “Out of Time”, if you take one thing away from this, it is you NEVER blame your children for you or your wife’s mistakes. EVER. It was your life and your decision to bring them into the world. They depend on you and your wife for guidance. Feel sorry for yourself on your own time, but you need to always love your…

So the guy in the first letter is probably about to murder his whole family right?

when I’ve done something wrong and I’m sleeping next to her

#1 is case in fucking point that feminism helps men too

Lines like this are why I read this column.