Whoa! Lots of questions :) Yes, I see what you're saying and you're right; I should probably be more clear that it's a combination planning/barrier method. I call it natural planning because of what swazzybear pointed out; it wouldn't work if I wasn't tracking my ovulation. Truthfully, we've gone through times with…

This is my main form of birth control and has been with my BF for last 5 years or so. It's really not as risky as you think. If you have a regular cycle, and you're diligent about it, it's actually pretty easy. I use a period tracking app that tells me my range of peak fertility days that month, during which we use…

Like the others said, my impression is that it's more of a girth thing. Even standard condoms don't completely unroll, so as far as length is concerned there's.. ahem... room for extra. But with girth? Think about wrapping a rubber band around your arm. Sure, it stretches so it "fits" but it's mighty uncomfortable, no?

If they haven't figured out that it's not ok to use rape as a metaphor for anything other than an actual rape, then I think it's safe to say they never will.