It's guilt: The sense that we are willingly participating in something wrong. I argue that if the transgression is the result of free will, the appropriate word for it is guilt. If it were shame we'd feel we use this mode of communication because we are inherently bad. I wallow in my first world privilege, not…

"Salubrious" means healthy. The word you want is salacious.

Where are the vicars?

About four weeks ago I got married to a man who's makes about 1/3 as much money as I do.

That outfit looks like a freshman theatrical costume design student made it while drunk.

Elomi works well for me from a nipple-stability standpoint. Nordstrom carries them and they wear like iron.

I'm pendulous, too. I find it REALLY helps perky-nipple-stability to apply a generous swipe of moisturizer or skin oil before donning the bra. I do have to readjust once in a while, but starting off a bit, well, sticky, seems to help. It's good to take a moment to caress the girls in the morning, too, "Hey girls,…