hey there women have sex orgies too

Some of us need to drink to make being around people like you tolerable.

I have long wondered if the evangelical anti-trafficking thing is so focused on sex trafficking because of evangelical hangups about sex. It is REALLY a thing, including among more "progressive" evangelicals, and the sex aspect seems to really grab them.

Luckily, many women love being controlled

You are an adult at 18. stop reaching.

I will raise my hand here. I am rarely on the, "Not even a tiny bit?" side but the degree to which she emphasizes her own role in initiating makes me reluctantly wade my toe into those waters.

If she were a 15-year-old initiating with an older teacher I wouldn't be swayed. She's still 15, after all.

But she's 19 here.…

Sorry, let's address that "problem" right now. How on earth is it a "problem" when young women seek out older men? It's only a "problem" if there is a "problem" with the young woman to begin with. And it's pretty insulting to anyone with an older SO to imply that they have a mental issue JUST because they happened…

It took a lot of courage to come out and tell your story. This isn't so much a flame to your story but an opinion on your last paragraph. I can't look at this as you being a victim. You were 19. You at that point were a willing participant. You knew right from wrong. You could have established those boundaries…

What's harmful about it? These women aren't forced to do this, they want to do it. Because it makes money. A lot of money. The men aren't forced to buy it, either. If YOU don't want to look at it, don't buy it. The rest of us will continue on our merry way reading the swimsuit issue for the articles.

That judge should spend a night there alone before he rushes to judgment.

Ohhhh, god. I forgot the context of him talking about it being about the dog! How did I forget that?!

Schwyzer was (and I'm sure is) fucking awful, for so many reasons. Also, the "allegedly" in the article when it talks about him trying to murder his girlfriend is entirely unnecessary—we only know about the incident because he fucking bragged about it in a blog post that was meant to make someone else feel better for…

"Which is just a gross way of saying you like the chance to bang young people under the current age of consent."

@Ismone: The thing is, I happen to feel that sex work is socially necessary, considering the fact that there is a large (and disproportinately male) portion of the population who either don't get sex at all, or don't get the quantity or type of sex that they want/need.

@Ismone: In the real world, hedge fund managers can afford much better attorneys than secretaries can - and those lawyers can file lots of motions to delay the case until she runs out of money.

@Ismone: Look, the bottom line is, there are those who aren't going to be able to persuade somebody to have sex with them.

@HoneySmacks: "i really have no problem with a sex-for-money exchange. after all, any marriage where one partner stays home and takes care of the house and kids and so on while the other works and pays for everything is basically the same thing, it just has a piece of paper that makes it all ok."

@alixana: the marriages that are totally equal partnerships are a fairytale, from my experience. my husband may be a great guy, but i don't have my own money, and i do 90% of the work with the kids and house. including driving my special-needs children to therapy in a snowstorm because it "makes him uncomfortable" to…

i signed up on one of those sites a couple of years ago. my friend paid for me to have a 1 month membership because we were both curious about the whole thing. she joked that if i found myself a sugar daddy i could pay her back and then she'd try it.