I can't stand the expression "hater." It ends up being a simple-minded way to dismiss criticism, and discourage critical thinking. The term wasn't around when I was young, but I got called "negative" a LOT. What I see now is that I did tend to speak up about the things I saw as problems, and keep quiet about the…
Yeah, I'm on Team Hater. The vast majority of things are overhyped, overrated, crowded and too expensive. Most people are boring and annoying. Most TV is total shit. Just leave me the fuck alone so I can listen to music that doesn't suck.
My issue with some men coming into the community is many are actively trying to make it a female-unfriendly place. I can't tell you how many Bronies say that they don't want women in their fandom, even though the show is for little girls. It started with calling us pegasisters and we weren't allowed to call ourselves…
This isn't about the perils of negatively contrasting one's own arse with a 'better' arse in a straight man's line of sight, it's about women accepting and normalizing their own bodies and each others'. Why are you making it all about you and your dick's opinion? You sound awful, but you know that already, trolololol…
I have never been more pleased to have cellulite if it prevents assholes like this from attempting to grab my ass when I walk down the street, (you know he's definitely that guy).
It doesn't help that almost every commercial/movie/ad where you see a woman's hind-parts and thighs, or anywhere underwear is being sold, glorifies bodies that generally belong to very hungry-looking teenagers or women who have to professionally obsess over their bodies. And if they don't maintain, the powers that…
I wrote a little article on cellulite treatments for a magazine that's no longer in print a few years ago, and even though the article was only about "groundbreaking" treatments, the truth that didn't make the page is this: cellulite is genetic. You can't really permanently ban cellulite from your body without having…
Well, since they let you out of the greys anyway, I guess I'll give the troll a little snack. NO ONE GIVES A SHIT WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT THEIR BODIES HERE. We do not exist as a gender to stroke your boner.
Ditto. Well, not on the getting more degrees part, but very much on not dealing with this shit. Especially because for women, the ultimate goal—marriage or a stable, long-term cohabitation—generally involves said woman becoming, at least to some degree, an unpaid maid, cook, and, if kids happen, nanny.
Yeah, I'm not going to deal with this shit. This is why I stay far away from men. I'm going to be alone all my life and I'm starting to feel alright about that. It just means that time that I would have wasted on men I can now waste on getting more degrees.
I cringe at both, but it's not the sexuality that makes me cringe, it was the terrible singing, the talentless dancing, and the aura of "this is what you guys like, right, right!?!?! I'm so bad, right? RIGHT!?!?!"
Here is my problem with Miley.
I mean, it was wearing a latex-clad Miley Cyrus for Christ sakes! WHAT DID IT THINK WAS GOING TO HAPPEN?
My theory is that she's SUPER boring at sex. She's 'sexy' because that's how she thinks she should be, but she doesn't actually like sex.
It is pretty much a given that anybody that is overtly homophobic is deeply self hating. Not surprising, but still very sad.
It is profoundly typical that the media ignores the dancers as exotic bodies trope and the response is zomg slut-shaming (ignores the trope as well).
I was absolutely repulsed by Miley's performance.