I keep seeing women saying that they occasionally "miss a day" on shaving. Wtf? Am I an anomaly? Am I a dirty, hairy freak? I shave like... once a week (sometimes less!) and my hair grows in dark and fast. I just don't like torturing my legs and cooter with four tiny blades that seem to dull on the first go around.…

I really think we need like a million of these. Like, woman walks down the sidewalk on a busy commute day, and is shocked to find that people don't run into her. Even when she tests the waters by throwing herself in their path, people dodge hurriedly out of her way! She goes home and is talking about it with her…

When I forget to shave my legs, I like to run my hands up and down my calves. It's weirdly satisfying. Ain't no company men or men in general gonna take that away from me.

Is this like that douche commercial where the guy accidentally uses his wife's vagina wash in the shower and then has to run around pulling tractors and crushing beer cans on his head so he doesn't grow a vagina or whatever? If I forget to shave my legs I might feel kind of grotty but I've never thought, "oh no, I'm…

Sophia says:

I'm sorry for taking this too seriously if you're just blowing off steam, but if you're actually asking if that's a good idea, that sounds like it could really make him escalate against your friend. Letting her stay at your place for a bit (assuming he doesn't know where you live) might be a better way to help.

How is he going to know its you doing this and not her? He'll likely assume its her and retaliate horribly. And even if he does know its you, he'll blame her for involving someone else in the whole thing.

Pretty terrible. He already sounds dangerous, and there's no guarantee that you outing him will make him treat her any better.

I'm in a relationship with a great guy, but (and there is always a but)I'm only getting sex about every two weeks (which I know some people would kill for, but this is about me, not them), and I'm tired of feeling constantly rejected. If I didn't live in such a tiny town (1,000 people), I'd consider asking if he was…

I had a very early miscarriage (I didn't know I was pregnant until blood work for something else came back, and my dr did the pregnancy test since I was a day late...I had to go in anyway, so she figured just do it just in case). So I go back to the doctor having already started my period, and discover I had been…

You're kicking ass. Honestly, there is nothing wrong with deriving pleasure from giving someone else pleasure, or even just the things you do that make them happy. And yeah, it really is fine not to remember his name the next day, unless you're married to him, but then that's a neurological problem, not a moral one.…

If you are being safe there is no reason to get down on yourself. Enjoy it!

Another poster on SNS tonight is going through something similar. I'm in grad-school part-time right now and in so many ways it's FUCKED. Universities and professors are just as dysfunctional as any other group of humans. So, your feelings are normal and not a sign you should quit. It's more just one of those…

In order to brag about or regret things when you're older, you need to actually do those things. So mind that you're safe and regret nothing.

First time I've commented on here but I need some guidance. Basically at 21 I only lost my virginity half a year ago (in a very positive experience) and since then I've basically been slutting it up. I go out a lot and when I get drunk I get horny. Everything has been safe and consensual but the fact that I was drunk…

Does anybody else have times when the social part of your brain just shuts down and you don't want to deal? Generally I tend to be an introvert, but I still manage to be interested in what my best friends have to say and can fully engage my mind in a conversation. Today, though, my mind blacks out whenever anybody…

Ugh you guys, I don't even have something interesting to say right now but I let myself come down with a case of fee-fees for an absolutely no strings attached tinder boy. WHY. I am sad about my stupidity.

My 3 year old chihuahua was killed today. Two dogs that live at the local oil shop attacked him while my boyfriend and I were walking him and my other dog. I know there was nothing we could of done but I just feel awful. He was our first dog and (secretly) out favorite. The sweetest dog in the world who wanted to be…

That tortoise did not live eighty plus years to be decorated like a shark for your entertainment.