I just rescued my own little kitty! We found him on the highway with his brothers. The others were already rescued, but I think I'm gonna keep this little man. His name is Humphrey Bogart, "Bogie" for short. ^_^

so cute! We found this little guy wandering around our yard a few weeks back but no other kittens or a mom ever showed up. He was also almost instantly down with being a full time inside cat, so I think some jerk face must have set him out. I'm glad he has a good home now, we couldn't keep him but a friend took him.

SNUGGLES!

SO many pics....

Speaking of cat ladies, the boyfriend and I have been fostering two that were stuck under the house. Momma didn't abandon them, she should couldn't get to them. So, I ran into momma today. I have to assume the fact that she's sticking around means there are more kits somewhere. I'll wait until our two are weaned…

Ugh, a group of white people ganging up on the only non-white person for being "too PC" when she calls them out on their racism. Those people suck; I hope they all get painful canker sores tomorrow.

My parents didn't allow me to wear make-up and my dad constantly went on these boring rants about how only old women need to wear make-up and I shouldn't make myself look old!!! And everyone made fun of me for not beautifying myself enough. Then one day my mom decided to get me a small liquid eyeliner. So I started…

I used to yell this idea at my older sister all the time when I was a kid because I was angry at her for starting to wear makeup. Something like, "Well why dont you just wear a mask since your own face is too ugly for you!!!!"

I'm really glad it helped. Sometimes it's knowing other people have guilt and are dealing with it that helps. For some reason it's easy to see how someone else is not blame than to see you're not to blame. As you know it was hell to go through. In some ways I am still dealing with the aftermath. I think its okay to…

I am so sorry. Suicide already leaves a whole stew of guilt , anger and sadness but the violence makes in tenfold. It's good that you can remember he was a good person. Please take care of yourself.

Well, relationships are hard. My wife and I have been together for more than two thirds our lives. At one time or another, we've both been at the point where we were willing to go our separate ways but we always pull back at the last minute. I won't speak for her but for me, I can't imagine my life without her. …

kicker is this back and forth went on for close to two years. But as they say 'he gon'

I am so sorry you went through that. It's hard because logically I know I couldn't have stopped it and as my bff pointed out "You could have been with him when he had the break and he would've just murdered you." Just as I'm sure you know it wasn't the fight but a myriad of other things that went into the suicide. One…

I'm pretty sure an old friend "catfished" me. He had the same IP address as a guy that I started a relationship with online who could never meet me. Oh, when the online boyfriend disappeared I was worried (he told me his mom had cancer and was really depressed about it), so I got into his e-mail by knowing the answer…

I don't dispute that and completely trust someone is difficult for a lot of people, especially when you've been hurt before. I've been on the opposite side of that more times than I would have liked, because some demon ex-girlfriend caused so much hurt and distrust, why trust me?

I catfished a guy for like three years (yes, I am a terrible person).

When I first met my wife, I was 21 and she told me she was 18. Three months later we celebrated her 19th birthday, and two years later I was making big plans for her 21st... and then she came clean. When we'd first met she was 17, but was turning 18 in three months, so she said she was 18 to keep me from worrying…

I catfished a guy for like three years (yes, I am a terrible person). I was young and stupid, not in any way a good excuse, but it is what it is. Apart from my first name, my regional location, and my general appearance, I lied about everything else to him. I'm not sure what I did was "classic catfishing"... I made it…