Came here to say this.

Oh yeah that would be a whole different thing. ALTHOUGH I lived in Verdun back in the day and still can't believe it's become a bougie paradise, so maybe NDG used to be rougher before my Montreal days and underwent a similar change.

Wait. So marrying somebody you love hurts the men you did not marry? This is the “logic” you are going with?

Most of the problem is probably that this person seems to be an MRA. I commend you for trying though! 

Honey you’re chatting up an au pair. You’re already going the international service route, she just happens to be state side already. 

He posts frequently about not getting dates. Seems like there could be a better use of his time. Oh well, I guess we’ll never know.

You really don’t want to engage with this guy. He’ll claim that he, personally has lots of dating success and then pull out a list of anecdotal examples to prove his point. It’s pointless talking to him: he’ll pop up again in a few weeks saying the exact same things no matter what is said to him here. And yes, he has…

This response explains a lot. Looks like you’re taking the international service route. Good luck with that. 

Agree. There’s nothing more toxic than fandom.

Poor, happily married man with no agency who got seduced by the evil homewrecker. It’s all her fault, men can’t help it don’t you know?

The only homewrecker is the person cheating and leaving their partner. Sure, people shouldn’t get involved with married people but it’s the married person who’s most at fault. And I can’t fucking stand Ariana Grande but we really need to stop with the misogynistic ‘homewrecker’ narrative. 

Yup. The secret to love and successful relationships is to find the objectively hottest person. That’s all there is to it.

Not this again. The man who stood up and swore before God and Man to keep your family intact is the one who decided you are collateral damage. A random woman does not owe you more decency than your husband simply because she is a woman. Women are selfish assholes too, news at 10. We are not automatically each other’s…

Le sigh.

Wow, that’s really amusing.

He better hope I don’t get the high ground.

*Gallic shrug*

Kids like that get so jaded and tough their apologies are only half hearted.

FIFY

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