If you want something that isn’t brutalization, look up X-art, or Nubile Films. They’re on the classier, well-lit, end of the spectrum.

Not for nothing, but I think you’re on to something with that whole “jackhammering away” bit, Harris. I’m a cisgendered heterosexual dude, and I’m very happily married—but my wife’s in the military, so I’ve been known to (and she’s aware of and comfortable with the fact) watch porn when she’s deployed.

I generally…

Sorry. Patient/fake-doctor privilege.

So youre gonna play this hand now?

No, but i also know punitively and retroactively changing the ‘rules’ for one person is a lawsuit. And you kinda missed the whole point of the commenting thing. But well done for participating.

Where did under_electriclite say ponytails and pigtails were an ethnic thing? They were talking about headwraps. Though ponytails are so common among women in general that banning them is, to me, nothing short of gender-based discrimination.

As you noticed late she did file a formal complaint. And while that formal complaint was pending the manager saw fit to issue an after the fact memo outlining specifics, including a bar on the offending piece of fabric (which if you look down thread you’ll find out was rescinded because baring “cultural head-wraps”…

Nah, the only thing childish here is your continued tantrum over being called out on your stupidity and misgyny. But don’t worry, you’ll never have to cosplay to look like a childish idiot. You play one in real life.

Dress codes are common. So are black people apparently violating them because their hair or how they manage their hair does not conform to those standards, of which the standard is very white.

It’s not about a scarf. Her boss was also harassing her for ponytails and pigtails that were tied neatly. She, in turn, wore a headscarf to maintain neatness, and her manager still didn’t like it. She’s literally being targeted for her hair despite it still being professional.

It's also HIGHLY illegal. Source: am civil rights attorney.

Doubt it. Her boss is going to get in trouble for these rules. She is following the rules in her cosplay. If she gets fired, that gives her case to the commission even more weight. Also, where did you hear that the scarf is in no way religious for her? What does her picture have to do with it? I know many head-scarf…

Sounds like a reader who didn’t read the article and is bitching about what they imagine the article was about. Aside from that, do you really believe that rules are rules, no matter how stupid, and once set no one should ever bitch about them or try to change them?

The issue I think, is the boss adding to the dress code on a whim. It would be best to see the complete version of the company’s policies, since “clean and pressed” is very vague.

Looks like she’s following those rules to the letter.

I think you’re missing the part where the employer actively changed the dress code to ban the thing she didn’t like...

She is following the rules. The cosplay outfits she chooses are deliberately within the rules while allowing her to cover her hair.

“despite the unnamed company’s dress code simply stating that employee’s clothing needed to be “clean and pressed”.”

If you read the story, you’ll see that the Dress Code was changed AFTER she was told not to wear the scarf.

Didn’t read the article? The boss changed the dress code after the fact because they didn’t want pony tails or head scarves.