How does this work in other languages? Especially those that require you to know gender before knowing which word to use?

I think for some people (myself included) having to go through and set up al the rules and boundaries makes it a little less hot. So you end up either with a guy who takes charge and goes for (something that's in theory, really bad) or one who waits for you to direct him, which doesn't feel dominant. I think that's…

Ah you're right. I hadn't even thought about the adolescent propensity to jump straight into things. The chance a younger teen would regret it is probably higher than an adult or older teen.

I don't know, we have this really strange grey area for 16 and 17 year olds in that they're allowed to have sex with each other, but sometimes not with people over 18. And even where they are allowed to have sex with adults, they aren't allowed to be presented in a sexual way to adults. They're aren't supposed to be…

I know you're kidding, but I kinda like how these are gender neutral and not too heteronormative.

I'm actually beginning to think we should drop it to under 16 to qualify as child pornography.

I'm kind of curious as to whether this is necessarily more common than it used to be? I'm in my twenties, so my friends and I all had the option to send nude photos when we were minors, but I don't know many people who did. It was well known that a boy was likely to show it to other people and it might end up on sites…

I wouldn't know. But it does sometimes suck to be a brown person and being forced to listen to guilty white people squee over brown kids the way people do baby monkeys at a zoo

Yawn. would anyone even care if they were both white?

lmao you used it before me. Clown. Goodnight.

I don't judge people by their looks. Saying someone has terrible eyebrows isn't judging their personality or individual worth. Saying it to their face is incredibly rude because most people do tie their worth to their physical appearance. But commenting on a photo of a person you've never met and never will meet is no…

I don't think anyone who can think critically would make such a fallacious statement. Whether or not you find someone else ugly has nothing to do with your own character or lack thereof.

Who says that, ugly people?

"In general, there is no way to tell how healthy a person is just by looking at them"

Actually you and anyone else who perpetuates the idea that by calling someone unattractive, you're somehow commenting on their worth as a human being, y'all are the problem. People who preach the 'everyone is beautiful' mantra as if beauty is a desirable character trait and not some silliness about how your features…

I'm very secure in my slightly-above-averageness, honestly. My friends and extended social circles though, are all exceedingly beautiful people. So my meter could just be off because I live in Paris and I'm surrounded by thin, fashion-y/stylish young people.

I figured they were 'I want some definition here' circles.

Most of us don't look how we think we look. In studies people generally choose photos manipulated to make them look more attractive as 'accurate' and their actual photos as manipulated to look bad. That's why sometimes you have to take 1000 selfies to get a cute one. Ya aren't cute.

The dancer with the fucked up eyebrow situation? Yo.

Stunning? Nahhhh. I would rather look like myself than any of them and I'm only very slightly above average. Like the one in the green undies is kinda cute, but notice she only has lines on her boobs.