I don't disagree. I think it is nuanced. But I think that's where terms like 'heteromantic' come in handy because you can speak distinctly about your sexual attractions/interests vs your actual romantic involvement.

There is no appropriate time to "call bullshit" on how an individual defines their own sexuality

I meant skinny. But her legs are not the traditional idea of pretty, feminine legs. Muscle, which black women tend to have more of than white women, is often thought of as masculine and undesirable. The result is the kind of comments you read about Michelle Obama's arms because she dares to wear tank tops while having…

Again, I'd be laughed out of the room (rightfully so) if I told someone identifying as bisexual that they weren't, BECUZ REASONS

But the study said nothing about attraction, is my point. The women weren't attracted to the monkeys fucking, they were aroused physically because it was a sexual image. Lemon didn't say 'my vaginal canal switches to 'let's fuck' mode when I see women' the entire conversation we've been having is about attraction.…

Lol did you just name drop some WWE bro? I'm cringing so hard right now. Was that supposed to impress someone?

I also have read about and seen documentaries on how female sexual arousal works, and from what I understand, regardless of their sexual orientation women tend to have an equal level of physical sexual arousal to sexual images of women and of men. Whereas men skew very much towards their identified sexual orientation…

I didn't define her sexuality. She said she's attracted to both men and women, that's bisexual. She doesn't have to identify as bisexual but I honestly think a lot of the reluctance for women to use the world is founded in a kind of prejudice itself. Imagine if she was a guy who only fucked other guys but got pissed…

Are you one of those people who was disappointed to find out WWE isn't real?

I always wondered about this, why so many women cut their hair short after a certain age.

so you're bisexual (or pansexual or queer or something) and heteromantic

Um, if you're attracted to women and you are a woman, you aren't straight.

Male gaze is something very specific. Notice the cigar sucking and the way they don't seem particularly interested in each other.

I think it's actually somewhat subversive because everywhere else on the internet, 'nice legs' are slim and white.

I can't ever get with the male-gazey pretend lesbian thing.

who

I've never in my life seen a thinspo blog with girls gawking at muscular thighs. Your thighs are supposed to be as thin as two unboiled hotdogs (the boiled ones are too big)

For the love of all that is holy. What a beautiful man

I'm all for this from a policy standpoint, but if I I really don't think it's anyone else's responsibility to make sure I don't get pregnant. If I literally couldn't afford any contraception, couldn't find a clinic to get condoms and couldn't figure out the rhythm method I wouldn't be having PIV sex. I just wouldn't.…