Look, there are 30 guys in a room. 10 white american, 10 African American and 10 Indian. If 3 of the white guys are creeps, 4 of the black guys are creeps and 9 of the Indian guys are creeps, then proportionally, Indians guys seem creepier. This is all about perception. No one here is stupid enough to think that India…

I actually think it's more of a fetish? Incest role play porn as opposed to actual incest. Most of the porn with that theme is Russian, Japanese or Indian.

Yeah it seemed like a stretch to me as well. I don't even believe that men who are more 'violent' are necessarily more prone to rape since it's a very specific crime. I know guys who live for bar fights and throwing down but would never force themselves on a woman.

Also, there is an entire tumblr devoted to creepy white guys on Okcupid.

I know Indian isn't an ethnicity, but it's easier to write shorthand than name each of the thousands of ethnic groups included.

I thought that response was particularly shitty as well. I know plenty of awesome Indian guys (ethnically Indian, I don't know any who are Indian nationals) so I definitely don't go into my interactions thinking they're going to be horrible.

Ah well that hasn't been my experience. But I think it depends on where you are. When I get poorly spelled messages that are pushy and make no sense, they are generally arabs. White guys tend to be incredibly corny and self-effacing and whiny but I'm pretty sure that's because I'm black.

I don't think there's a nice way to discuss whatever cultural issue leads to the kind of behaviour discussed in the thread.

that's what I always wonder when someone is trying to pick me up in a ridiculous way! Like 'has this ever worked for you?'

I think it's both. The color of blue on her eyes is probably not that rich either. It looks like they intensified the colors.

I loved Winter's Bone too. Wish J-Law would do more like it. They're so busy hamming her up.

I'm always first to bitch when I think someone is being called 'beautiful' because they simply don't fit the mainstream beauty ideal, but she is legit gorgeous. Her features are just so lovely (without being european, classic black beauty) and I'd rather look like her than look like me any day. Really beautiful. I…

My favorite Okcupid creeper is 'Dude Who Isn't Even Close To My Stated Preferences' (there is some overlap with 'Dude Who Didn't Read My Profile'). Like It clearly says 18-35 and near me, so of course I get dozens of messages from 40 year old Indian guys.

I kind of believe him? I mean I feel like he would outright deny anything had happened if he wanted to look innocent. Instead he's like 'yeah I touched my adult niece's new boobs, but she let me.'

This is what happens sometimes when you're like ridiculously good looking. It's like 'fuck it, whatever, I'm hot.' But that doesn't always work

oooh she looks like a little wintery nymphette or something. Cute.

Will never forget The Jolie Leg

Really? I think she's very conventionally pretty, but not so distinct. I get her mixed up with Ilsa Fisher all the time.

This is a crazy revelation for me, I always think she looks fantastic. I like her dress here too. Maybe her style is divisive.

ughhh