Yep! It’s not even an age thing. I have had this ever since puberty. I get more of them now that I’m past 40 but I’ve always had them. For me it’s like a whisker. One day it’s not there, the next day it’s just poking out of the skin and I grab it with the tweezer and yank. 

Yeah, I get a few in it. Most are where the areola meets the breast but every so often there’s a dark hair in it. 

Yeah, I get a few in it. Most are where the areola meets the breast but every so often there’s a dark hair in it. 

I’m 43 so I have at least one black hair per boob at any given time. I try to keep up on them but life is busy. The chin hair is more than I can handle though. And the gray mustache hairs. 

Yes. There is so much shit that we give ourselves body shame for and so much of it is just normal! I love seeing people talk about it. There’s a Facebook ad for one of those dollar razor services for women and in the video ad for it, the model is shaving her toes. The comments are all like “Ah, I shave my toes too!” -…

Yes, most of mine are very small and blonde so I don’t bother. But there’s always at least one sharp black thick hair that I have to pluck. 

I have this with my chin. One day--no hair. The next? Hair that’s 1 cm long. 

Yes, I think you’re right. They’re not being terribly specific. It’s more areola hair than anything else but I think they’re just referring to all of it as “nipple”

Traumatic nipple hair moment: I have them. I thought everyone did? At a college job guys were talking about gross moments in sex and one guy was like “Oh once I slept with this girl who had nipple hairs!” and the other two guys were like “oh gross!” and made gagging noises. He said something like “So fucking gross”…

Yes! At my 6 week postpartum I was really depressed. Cried throughout the whole appointment. I experienced severe anxiety about breast feeding. I was beyond exhausted and when I got a chance to sleep, the anxiety would keep me awake. She was like “You’re probably just tired. I’ll call you in a week to see if you’re…

Thank you- that is helpful and enlightening. I appreciate the response. 

That was my question as well. The parents mention texts that they claim prove that R. Kelly had sex with their child when she was 17. So if these texts included photos, I could see where a parent would be like “I will turn these over to the police!” and it could be easily twisted by Kelly.

The difficult thing in both…

Thank you! That makes sense with the bonding issues. 

Yes, I saw a tweet that said that - watching him scream at Gayle is one thing. Now replace Gayle with a teenaged girl who hasn’t seen her family in a year and it’s even more horrifying.

Yes, as a parent now I really maximize my time in the office more than I used to. I get shit done. I make sure I’m seen and heard from at various important events and meetings. I am strategic about what I volunteer for. So on those weeks when school is canceled due to snow or my kids are sick and I’m gone, I feel less…

I’m truly not trying to be snotty - I sincerely want to know, what sorts of things would be in that article? With moms there are so many unique physical issues (healing from surgery or tears, hormones not “right” yet, previous work wardrobe not fitting yet, breastfeeding, pumping, etc.) that dad’s don’t have. What do…

I was very mixed on it. I knew that I did not want to be a SAHM and I didn’t have the right temperament for it. There were a lot of reasons I did want to return back to work. I wanted to be around adults again. I wanted to pee in peace. I wanted to eat a meal and do things for people who said “Thank you!” - but…

Yes! I agree with this. I was fortunate that when both of my babies were born, I worked in an office with a lot of women so there were three other moms who had a baby around the same time as me and we became kind of an informal support group for each other. Then at the second job with the second kid, another woman I…

Yes, I’m always confused when people - especially people older than I am - are like “I’m so sad, we never hear from Maggie anymore now that she got that new job” - Well, because our friendship with Maggie was situational - we worked together. Now she has friends at her new job. There are a few co-worker friends I have…

This is true. Plus, in the documentary Francois seems to kind of get where Fred is coming from (during that time) and even tells another story about how later on Fred tells him that he loves him (in a fatherly way) and that experience really impacted him and made him feel good to get that love and acceptance from Fred…