MoGlo, you know I love your writing a lot but the title man! I was literally mainpaged today with an article called "How We Talk About Women" and your title is everything that I was complaining about how the media dehumanises women by llabelling them in reference to men. We all know who Reeva Steenkamp was, at least…

However, I really wish that Jezebel would stop with the sensationalist headlines and publish more than one type of cop story. These types of headlines (it happened again: everyone be afraid of police now) continue the cycle of fear and hatred of police officers everywhere and it makes their jobs that much harder.

I wonder if you're bringing up stuff to test her and confirm your biases against her. I have never had a friendship that hinged on the other person's knowledge of cholera.

Nope. Too many bleeding hearts here Broseph Stalin. No matter how horrendous the crime (be it murder, child abuse and even rape) if you suggest any sort of ACTUAL justice they come squawking out of the gutters to protect the murderer, to protect the abuser of children and to protect the rapist.

The medical establishment can barely handle a new billing/coding system without imploding. There are no conspiracies because we just don't have the time, the desire or the intention to be malicious. Direct your paranoia to the government and the Illuminati where it belongs.

I would be pissed if my daughter told me she was pregnant at 16, but I don't understand why these mothers tell these girls that their lives are ruined and how hard it will be and then proceed to kick them out of the house. Granted this girl can go live with her father, but it seems kind of rough, especially since the…

I have never done this for the same reason I have never done cocaine—I know I wouldn't stop doing it.

Girl, it's not called "the suicide cabinet" for no reason—when unorganized, shit falls down and tries to kill you...

Exactly! Wash a pot AND a mug? Are you TRYING to hold women back?

Want very fast hot chocolate? Sure, use a microwave. Or put it on a stove, you lazy asshole.

I despise this argument. Psychologically healthy people do not kill themselves because someone broke up with them, and another person's actions do not cause someone to become depressed. Outside forces (breakups, financial problems) can worsen depression but they do not cause it. It's completely unfair to blame this…

"I think it's irresponsible to take a bunch of actors that will have a Google alert on and to suddenly throw their name into a situation that none of us could possibly knowingly comment on," Johansson said. "That just feels irresponsible to me."

What sort of volunteer programs? Traveling to where? What will they do there? How will they learn about other cultures?

"Yes, all men must die. But we are not men."

I agree. I am an academic and I always say hi to the cleaning guy and sometimes chat with him and he always seems so surprised that "someone like me" would be nice to "someone like him" (he actually said that to a friend of mine who is also nice to him). That makes me so sad because it shows what he is used to. I…

Resist the desire to engage in gossip. Dont judge other peoples lunches. Be friendly to everyone. The fat ones, the nerdy, the mean girls. Take your time to learn the office culture. Congrats jobs are scarce in your USA.

I can't say enough how much I appreciate your response. This is tough talking about with people I know IRL. (And of the few I have reached out to, I've heard polar opposite reactions. One of them being "Oh honey, I know that's hard, but everyone cheats.") Part of me feels like I am over-reacting—this has really cut me…

Be the really, really quiet girl for awhile. Listen to everything, figure out who is trustworthy and who is sketch. Find the right people to befriend that will support you and not stab you in the back. Then you can open up a bit!