Send that email! Crush her spirit! She will survive, and eventually be able to look back on how horrible you were and laugh.

But the murderer has to LIVE WITH HAVING MURDERED and maybe even GO TO JAIL AND FACE CONSEQUENCES FOR THEIR ACTIONS ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( it is VERY SAD ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;( ;(

I feel like ghosting on ALREADY MADE PLANS is a whole level of ghosting that I just don’t even want to touch for fear of catching the Horrible.

I think it’s one thing to be exasperated at a friend who makes every little thing some kind of miserable life event (we all know someone who alllllllllways has some kind of self-victimizing conspiracy theory about, like, how they’re being treated at work, the cable company, their bus driver that morning, etc), and…

Awwww, that second story is really sweet! I’m glad you could resurrect yourself into your now-husband’s life. :D

This, two thousand times this!!! Even if you want resolution, the ghoster is effectively refusing to give it to you, just because ehhhhh it’s so haaaaaaaaaaaard…

Ahhh, I’m so glad I could help you with this breakthrough! There’s no sense in blaming yourself, or trying to figure out what you could have done, or whatever—his actions and words (or lack thereof) reflect on him and not at all on you. And what it reflects is that he’s the kind of person who will commit to someone…

Ugh, this sounds like a really imbalanced friendship. If she’s struggling with depression, I feel for her, but that doesn’t mean that she gets to be the friend who takes an emotional toll and you don’t get to express to her when horrible things are happening in your life (or when you do, you get ghosted on). :T I hope…

See, another point: it is probably more likely to feel really good to be the ghoster than it is to feel really good about being ghosted. (Source: I have, in the past, felt great about being a ghoster, but I have never felt too great about wondering why the fuck someone I was cool with stopped talking to me.)

I’m so sorry you went through this. Your fiancee sounds like a lot of trouble, and I hope you are happy that you got out of that relationship! It must have taken a lot of strength.

What?? No, it is way harder to be ghosted than to do the ghosting. The ghoster is in control of the scenario; the ghostee is in the ghoster’s (metaphoric) hands, running around wondering what the hell they did wrong when really the fault is that the ghoster does not know how to communicate clearly with someone or take…

Man, I just can’t get over. “Using colors that skin doesn’t actually come in to prove how racist you supposedly aren’t is stupid.” “Yeah, but which is the least stupid color??????????????” And you think that’s a real question worth squeezing an answer out of a stranger for.

Wait, no, OK, I get what you’re saying. What you’re saying is “I wanted an answer to my actual question, and you gave me an answer to the shitty and overdone spirit of my question, and I am too tired to address it.”

Wait, hold on. Oh my god. You wanted me to go through and read all of the responses to your comment? And meanwhile, you’re responding to my post with a copy paste to a comment that I didn’t even write and you’re all huffy when I’m like “wow, that’s an answer that had nothing to do with my question”?

Did not see “What color” anywhere in your post. And honestly, did not see a question anywhere in your post. Honestly honestly, did not see anything but true trolling in your post, and it’s cute to see you scramble to say otherwise to make yourself seem ~so smart and legit~.

Did... Did you try reading my “Practical Answer” line? I can write things out for you but I can’t help you with your reading comprehension, friend. (Also—YOU get a break for fucking copy-pasting something that is blatantly not an answer to my question, but when YOU PERCEIVE that I didn’t, it’s all “meta-commentary…

Practical answer: have you tried just asking them how many blue-green-purple people they know?

Is it very difficult for you to just say “I try not to make assumptions on people based on their color” without bringing up hypothetical blue-green-purple people who don’t even exist?

Wait, am I reading this right? I mean, aside from all of your other hangups, you’re holding servers responsible for your food being “not very good” when you take it home in a box and then reheat it later?

Just wait until I tell you about how it rained on my wedding day. How ironic, right?????????