I'm queer, and have been in one hetero and multiple homo relationships, and I've definitely thought to myself once (I think only once, actually) that it would be easier if my partner were a woman. I was upset about something that was inextricably mixed up with his male privilege, though he had done nothing wrong and…

@wesker1989: Shit doesn't work like yes or no when you're talking about complicated things. For example, what do you mean by "women"? What do you mean by "better"?

@Mademoiselle-of-the-USA: Ok, from your original comment it sounded like you had talked to your bf about this, and like he was still against gay marriage (which might have been poor reading comprehension on my part). And I was like, Um, once you explained it to you the way you said you did, if he didn't get it then…

@precipice: CRAZY TALK!

@BeckySharper: Holla!

@wesker1989: "But this central tenet of what we are doing all too frequently gets lost in the frothing rage of white middlclass westerners patting each other on the back about how awful our imperialist invasion is, and how dare we not let them decide how to run their own country, that would be racist!"

@That-Dude: Thanks for that, I was going for a nuanced response but clearly I failed. You've enlightened me about how I need to be more nuanced and smarter. Thank you for your help. I really appreciate it. If it weren't for you I wouldn't ever have understood nuance or critical thinking or social issues or casual…

@BrutallyHonestBabes (aka Mrs. Sarah.of.a.Lesser.Hobbit): You are truly Brutally Honest.

@lizyfizy: You know that this was originally written for Feministe, right? Just to be clear—the writer is not a regular contributor to Jezebel.

@HighThaid: Congratulations, you're not a rapist!

@mova: Clearly you haven't watched enough Buffy, because that's not how it works.

"13. "Those who are openly gay will be excluded from social functions, such as barbeques."

Hah. I love this. It was great.

@OutlawDominus: Your professor sounds like an asshole. And an idiot. I hope someone coughed on him.

@blameitonrio is gettin advanzed edumakashun!: It's a hammer.

@blameitonrio is gettin advanzed edumakashun!: I am a radical feminist. A radical fucking crazy militant feminist.

@perdue: Yes.

@HoneySmacks: "any marriage where one partner stays home and takes care of the house and kids and so on while the other works and pays for everything is basically the same thing"

@Mademoiselle-of-the-USA: "And while marriage and partnership may seem more-or-less the same on the outside"

@DasStan: Yeah, haven't you ever seen Jurassic Park?!