It probably would have helped if she wasn’t smiling so much! It’s not a happy song...

I just started 300mg wellbutrin class, I am also sick and taking Delsym, so far my brain has been in a complete fog, do you feel that on wellbutrin xl or do you think it's the delsym? Sorry for typos, refer to foggy brain part.

Hmmm my little sheltie had a hacking cough for years, the vet tried different medicines and we changed his food, sometimes it lessened but it always came back, our vet finally decided it was just irritation and we stopped forcing medicine on him. Have you had a chance to take him to the vet? It sounded like my vet…

my thoughts exactly!

Any advice on how to meet feminist men is very appreciated! (Although I think I partly just need to get out of the south....)

Yeah, I have looked up volunteering opportunities, I don't know what I'm so afraid of tho, I just get so anxious about meeting groups of people all at once I suppose? Do you usually use a certain organization's website or a volunteer database?

(Sorry if this is whiney)

Yesterday a guy from OKC confirmed our date two hours prior to it.....and didn't show. Talk about pissed, I couldn't believe how rude it was. No text, no call, just silence while I sat in a restaurant waiting. Luckily it was a really good restaurant and I chatted with people at the bar and had the best molcajete dish…

I'm also a white woman with a big butt (and a itty bitty waist! sorry I had to...), and I can tell you it is RARE as hell that a white guy comes after me, and most of the rest of my body is small (ie. I'm not overall a large woman), so its not my overall weight. Big butts are not popular in white culture - the ideal…

Anyone have experience/advice regarding turning down sex you don't want? I can do it sometimes, but I was with a very manipulative/coercive guy for years, and I'm always overwhelmed with feelings of fear and guilt that make me pretend I want what I don't want or make me comply when I'm pressured. Maybe certain phrases…

You know what I've been wondering lately? Why can't men just shut the F&** up already and stop telling us how to feel or what to do??!! Is it THAT hard to think of someone before yourself? Or to think "maybe these ppl know their own experiences better than me" or "maybe since I don't have experience with this I should…

I know that feeling! I've been doing my cpa license since last November and I can't study anymore!! Good luck w your exam, picture freedom around the corner ;) and maybe eat cookies like I am...

I wish I could have had/afforded Google Glass when I was living in NYC - I would have recorded every day walking to work and posted it online, and really that's what we need to do - show their fucking faces online and SHOW people the types of "compliments" we are getting from men who might hurt /follow/further harass…

This is when I start looking into how hard it is to move to the Netherlands or Denmark....

my problem with this kind of thing is that it misses the most important message we should be shouting about:

I have a crush, my first crush in years. He has a girlfriend of course, and his friend likes me instead. Of course. I realized, with great sadness, that I've never actually had sex or dated a guy that I had a crush on. I don't mean I haven't enjoyed dating or sex, just that it was never what I truly wanted but felt I…

I talked with my ex yesterday, over who(m?) I have had horrible guilt over breaking up with three years ago. The conversation got to my sexual issues and how I think they stem from how often he pressured me into sex and ignored my requests for lube or condoms for my comfort. I was a virgin before him, and he would…

I know it's sunday but whatevs. Full disclosure - I've been drinking Moscatooooo.

French Kiss is the best!

Your post is so spot on. Guys take advantage of how women are socialized from birth to always be nice. I was nice to the guy who coerced me into sex, even tho I was furious and betrayed. I went into autopilot and didn't protect myself.
I think breaking this "nice" mentality is absolutely what we need to do, and I…