And for this guy, as a politician, to then go back and write a memo: ‘Oh, I felt threatened.’ He felt so threatened — but he didn’t do anything.”

She’s otherkin.

THIS is the Real L Word. Bunch of rich, drama-filled (mostly) white lesbos dressed in linen. (note, I am gay in case this is read as any kind of hatred based on sexuality)

People don’t like to hear this, but marriage involves work. As does any long term relationship. But especially marriage. You WILL have arguments and sometimes you will think, who the heck did I marry? But it is worth all of it, it’s good work.

Judith Wallerstein’s The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce should be required reading for anyone divorcing with children. I’ve recommended it to friends who were divorcing. One said it was “too painful” for them to read it.

I’d guess the therapist was simplifying. No reputable therapist is going to say “never divorce”, but they will convey something that boils down to:

“ But the fact is, most people don’t do divorce all that well, especially when children are involved. She’s strengthening their conviction that they need to get away from their husbands, instead of learning to work through challenging issues. Sometimes you have to be a warrior to stay.””

I think her sexuality is “attention”. Right now, Abby = Attention, so it works for her, I guess.

Right? This will be a fun distraction.

I LOVED Outlander, but, my god, they got SO BAD after that. I mean, at least Jean Auel took the entire slope of her series to get to a terrible book at the end. Gabaldon just fell off a cliff after the first one. :/

my mom recommended the outlander series to me and when i started it i was like OHMYGODMOM.

Thank god. This is exactly the book club we need in this, the summer of our discontent.

I wish that people that play with daddy’s money would stop calling themselves “entrepreneurs.”

Mrs. Fallis? How unfortunate.

I now have additional questions:

I am very...excited by this post.

Yes, White person here; it’s all about the planning, usually via group texts for a few days.

Yeah, that’s what I’d think, but at just plain ol’ lakefront “white” or non-race-defined BBQs, with my 30-something friends, I typically just know the hosts. There will be like 4 work friends, 5 college friends, work friends of partner, college friends of partners, 6 family members—partners and friends of college…

Let me ask this, because I am going to a cookout with my brother in law next weekend (yes, my parents finally let my sister back in after they had kids. Funny how grandkids make people change there decades old racist tendencies faster than anything): I like love soul food and like to cook it. I think I do it well -…

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