Sorri no about being a failure as a woman. That is a gift from biology. BUT here's the MAJORMAH-JOR sucky part: it will make you a failure as a SUCCESSFUL woman. Hands down denying the power of appearance in importance of becoming financially successful and independently powerful female islike being a Climate…

Side notes: remember there are a GAZILLION temp folks there wandering around and one especially cool backstage job is being an actual "doorperson". Many of the broadcast peeps will be there from like 1pm until 3-4am so if they have a "dressingroom/area" to store their gown changes, water bottles, extra lipstick,…

(sigh.) Def take MEMEMEmemoi! cuz as a hometown guuurrl we show you the realz LA. Plus head just a teeny wayz out of the big city and hit some terrific outlet malls in the sonshine. Don't be fooled by Hollyweird mess. Out of an enourmous place only VEDDYsmall part. xxoocf

Tropical fish ROK! My favs include this variety of PINK!!!! Kissing Gourmais (??) who will swim their PINKselves around the tank and face each other with poky out lips like they are truly kissing. Silly pretty fun. xxoocf

Re the Makeup Question. I have been on both sides—seller/buyer and the sad news is SOME items are worth the $$. What you need MOST is self-knowledge. For ex. IMHO as a former saleslady I think EsteeLauder stuff is mostly great and works best on the outdoorsy, sporty blond fair complexion ladies. I love but…

Very confused. We (obviously) must teach history/social studies forEVA oar all our math/science/STEM work becomes useless as we clank off to Robot/Non—JuicyPersonLand. HOWEVER you have not LIVED until you have read any of the Fox Folks history—kinda books they put out and become INSTanGIANT bestsellers. I guess we…

As a plus-size foreva lemme share some goodies: first, TARGET is tricky. There clothes are cheap, sized down and won't wear for long. ALso—SHOES from them are a total waste of money. Most of the time the sides will not even come up an entire INCH! Really YOU MUST get charge cards and keep them healthy from all the…

Out. Freakin'. Standing. If you are a male I hope you are suitably rewarded this evening for being a GEM of a Jim. And if you are female—well—-you already are too groovy for life. xxoocf

Oooooooo!YES!!! I want to be a loving warm breeze of a ghost. That sounds so nice. Kinda betta than the routine rigors of long term marriages. Something lovely to look forward to when the time is right. xxoocf

I think this is a comment on my level of SAD/schoolwork/housework/job hunting that I am actually looking forward to a lovely Saturday afternoon with a mani/pedi, mexican food lunch++margarita OR Tecate or BOTH and this movie with a small buttered popcorn and a bag of M&Ms. All by myself and my happy red mani/pedi!…

Yep. I bet he gets out in less than a couple of years. If I was that poor girl I'd change EVERYTHING forever and avoid a stalker. Peeeeewwwww xxoocf

With all the others. PS CYmbalta is pretty bad news. Taken it for years because of weird perpherial neurophathy. Thinking of changing to Effaxor becuz insurance will only cover Generic which my neurosystem is INSISTING is not the same. Many hugs. PS Been around long enough to see Karma work itself out. Wouldn't…

Sing sistah. After teaching troubled teens for over a decade I can't figure out why REALLY more teachers aren't ass-beating mass shooters. xxoocf

I hear ya sistah. Me too. Wanted to start "Black Sails" but holding that one open space for the new BruceJenner/transitioning show I hear will be on "E". Just amazed at—what?—65?? he changing his game so hard. xxoocf

At least they are plain in expectations. Watching manymanymany competant hardworking females frozen out and then eventually "released" or (seriously) "peacefully resigned" because they couldn't/wouldn't fall in line with appearance expectation. I tried twice to explain. One gal was so smart—her names were Ingrid…

Mustbe too early or sumthin'. Everything about this article creeps me out. Wretched book promoting (IDC about consent here—its the power principle) violence against women. Then a creepy marriage to a barely legal teen boy, ending up with do it yourself home obstetrics of a (simply becuz of her age) high risk birth. …

In our super-hot miserable summer town I always loved the cool tropical vibe of LP. And yes—horror of horrors!!— being plus size I will need to order on line but for LP—this I can do. xxoocf

Such a terrific show with DRAMATIC music before every commercial cut, devious debs, fascinating personal assistants—one for TH (waving to Gaborney) and one for TPH (waving to the hair that is playing Portia), and more leopard print and ascots than I could shake a stick at! Just a juicy kick back and relax good time.…

Well done and many cheers. WHen will females GET IT that its all about the bass no wait...LOOKS. ITS ALL ABOUT HOW PRETTY YOU ATTEMPT TO BE. xxoocf

Without the words to express—admiration at how you got all the totally right-ed-ness fucked-up-ology of it all. Gay men and Wild Wommyn. Long may we wave. xxoocf