Me! Me! I would do this in the shower and then in my 12 year old laziness I'd forget to rinse out the shower, and then I would get yelled at for leaving "sand" in the shower by my grumpy dad.
Happened to me in college all the time. The funny part is, I usually feel ok about my body. I know I'm fat and everything but I'm usually confident. When this stuff happens it makes me feel 3 inches tall and very ashamed.
So do I! Then I start thinking, "Oh Brassy, you're making a big deal out of nothing. So a man called you fat. So a man told you to smile. What does that hurt?" And then when I analyze it further I realize what a big deal is, and we cannot normalize this behavior.
Dean Norris! So much love!
Thank you. I just get so frustrated because I have a reason for looking this way sir. You may not know, but if I wanted to smile, I would. I'm not here for your amusement.
I find it's older gentleman who tell me to smile, because ya know, they're old and they are harmless and can tell me what to do? Um, NO!
I'm usually told how fat I am and instead of standing waiting for a bus, I should walk. Or that I need to smile. I think that bothers me the most. I don't understand. And when I speak with other women about it, they don't see the big deal at all. It's all so confusing.
Ok....I've never smoked weed. I'm dying to, however, I worry because of work and random drug testing. Advice please?
My best date ever was about 3 years ago. I was dating this guy and he decided he wanted to cook for me. I went to his place and we drank red wine, played music, and he made incredible lasagna. He gave me this stupid rubber ring that lit up when you pressed a button. It was Sweetest Day, but he didn't know what…
Real, live NAKED woman. I should have been more clear!
I think a lot of it was the fact that these women had never engaged in a sexual relationship. Some of them were "everything but" virgins and others were so strict that they wouldn't even kiss until their wedding day.
I clicked your link and was disgusted and amused. They are diverse because they have members from 10 different Southern states. Don't you dare try to rush if you're a Yankee.
When this happened to me, it was 1994. So there was no internet to make a "statement". But believe me, this definitely happens, we just don't hear about it.
I'm not sure what you're trying to say. All I was saying was it's not just Catholics who view women this way.
THIS. It's not just for Catholics. When I was getting ready to decide on college, the pastor at my Baptist church told me the same thing. He pulled me aside and told me I should learn a trade and work until I get married and then it was my husband's job to take care of me and the millions of Baptist babies we would…