Pro tip: Foundations are pretty much the oldest tax dodge in the book for the rich.

Red Emma's in Baltimore?

Inform EVERYONE in your circle of family and friends, call the cops, and get a restraining order. Like, now. This guy is clearly very sick and you need to make sure people know that this has been going on. Changing the locks will upset him and it's important that people in your life know that this is going on so they…

Fun fact: the Hell's Angels and other 1% clubs regularly threaten and even harm people for using the pictured three patch configuration without permission.

Wait, was this all one dude? Because wow.

This is absolutely correct. I work for the retail arm of a major global corporation and was first clued into this in 2007 when loss prevention sent some emails around about a ring of thieves who were stealing a very expensive, highly portable supply used by all of our stores. It was obvious from the emails that all of…

Yo, if your kid is legitimately allergic or sensitive to something in vaccines then you should be on the warpath against anti-vax fuckos. Herd immunity is what's keeping your child from getting sick and dying. Fewer vaccinated kids compromises herd immunity. Protect your child and go head to head with anti-vaxers…

Nothing wrong with Lucifer. Most names ending in "-el" are Hebrew-derived and usually angelic (Michael, Gabriel, etc). Since so many people are already named after angels and the fallen ones are cooler anyway, I say run with it.

They are having sex. 14 year olds have all of the hormones going on and kids these days (said without a hint of irony) have all been consuming internet porn since they were far too young.

Report her to her state's medical board. Tomorrow. First thing.

This. This is why I love blue laws.

You know what? I don't care what they say about you. You're alright.

That sucks and I feel for you, but answering emails from a seated position somewhere private cannot begin to compare to standing up for eight hours on end while dealing with the rudeness and aggressive stupidity that people in retail face. And for poverty level wages.

I'm glad you got out of that relationship. Abuse is never OK and leaving can be so hard.

Good on you for not boning the dude and I'm sorry a jerk like that ever entered your life. You wrote a lot there and I apologize if my response is overly short.

I am making a simple argument, yes, but not overly so.

That's ultimately a distinction without a difference. The cheater hurts the cheated through his or her betrayal. The other woman or other man hurts the cheated by being party to the cheating. Both hurt the cheated. The details and dynamics are interesting, sure, but they're largely irrelevant to the moral calculus.

Need there only be one scumbag in this affair? He's a cheater. Cheating hurts his wife and kids. She's the mistress. Her being party to the cheating hurts her lover's wife and kids. Both are responsible for the pain they inflict and are equally worthy of being called scumbags.

Here's the catch in your story: the guy lied to you about his relationship being on the verge of ending, not about being in a relationship. You knowingly went into your relationship with him while he was in an ostensibly monogamous relationship with another woman. That was wrong.