Well.

White dudes get cookies for merely being decent human beings all the time... I can't see this being any different. It's so refreshing to meet a white guy that doesn't deny their privilege and man/whitesplain everything that they seem super awesome by comparison. :(

The only part of this study that surprises me in the least is this:

While, I'm a big fan of the show, this is something that I always felt was at play with The Mindy Project. Like many, I have been bothered by the lack of diversity both onscreen and in the writer's room of a show run by "a fucking Indian woman who has her own fucking network television show." It's sad to think that…

Information? No. Insight? Apparently.

Everybody earns sex by making sex desirable to the other party or parties. There are many strategies for doing this. Pestering is a strategy, but not a good one.

EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWwwwwww. This is rape culture. A) 'Deny' him sex? No that's not how that works. Wives aren't people who provide you with sexual pleasure when you ask for it. B) "Excuses" ARE YOU KIDDING ME? Any reason you don't feel like having sex (you know, have a very intimate experience with someone, body to…

I think it's hilarious how many people think she's a bitch for posting this and not having an open conversation with her husband...

You're right, though. He was totally an open, forthcoming adult about the whole thing.

Turns out people have a tendency to enjoy sex when it is pleasurable for them. If your partner (male…

This is ultimately what ended my last relationship. After working 50 hours a week, plus doing the vast majority of the household chores/laundry/cooking/grocery shopping/cleaning, being in college part time and trying to run/get to the gym so I wasn't 'disgusting' to him I was fucking EXHAUSTED at the end of the…

She's working out. Maybe he doesn't work out, and it's him being unattractive and out of shape that's causing the problem here.

The idea that she would need to apologize for not wanting to have sex is flooring me.

Call me crazy, but maybe he's not making it worth her while? If he was any good in the sack, maybe he wouldn't need a spreadsheet.

When someone says "I'd rather watch a TV show I can DVR or watch on-demand than have sex with you", there are some serious issues to be addressed.

Any man is going to take all those "too tired' or 'ate too much' excuses to mean: "I really don't like having sex with you so I find lots of other things to do instead".

"I'm still a bit tender from yesterday". Yeeeeah right. Your wife just doesn't want to fuck you is what it is...

Something tells me there are two sets of books being kept here. We're only seeing his set. I'm guessing under her's, "you're a douchebag" appears quite often under the excuse column.

It is (and I'm being serious here) one of the things that makes life worth living.

All things in moderation, people. Use your substitutes if you want, just don't go bananas. I switched from conventional skim milk to 2% organic/grass-fed/sung-to-by-faeries milk, and simply consume less of it (because of the added fat and expense). The quality is SO much better, it makes everything it touches taste…

I don't get how any of you can drink milk that isn't whole, much less alternative milks (save for health reasons, of course). Whole milk is like 3% fat! Two percent I can handle, I suppose, but 1% milk should be banned. I won't even address skim milk, which is basically grey, milk-flavored water. Might as well not…

Kefir is good if you are want to drink yogurt, not if you are looking for an alternative to milk. Also I find it insulting that all of these milk alternatives use the word "milk". Milk is a liquid that flows forth from mammaries (sp?), not water mixed with almonds, soy beans, etc. Maybe that makes me an asshole, in a…