Once at my climbing gym, I was waiting to climb a route and this other climber started talking to me. After a couple of minutes of polite small talk, I was asked for my name. After telling him my name, he said, "No, what's your real name". Confused, I once again repeated my name. "No, no, what's your ASIAN name". This…

It is incredibly frustrating. I was at a bar a couple of weeks ago and was discussing my dating history with a man I just met. When told that I had been primarily with white men, his immediate response was, "Is it because all Asian men have small penises?". I JUST MET YOU. Actually, scratch that, it doesn't matter how…