Oh sweetie. Heart aches for you. Truly does. Your story is my story but without all the crap you seem to be living. I'm happy owning my 'bi' identity and my husband is cool with it too. He's happy and proud of it, in fact. Because it's what makes me ... ME!

Beautifully put. But now that I'm in my late 40s, I'm over that shit. I certainly FELT it — big time — when I was in my twenties, but now? Meh. Got my life, got my groove. I actually don't give a flying fuck about how I'm seen.

Me too. The things we do. Or rather: THEY do. Jeebus.

Lesbian porn is the best. I defy any woman — straight, gay or bi — to resist it, if it's done properly ... and I mean, without the talon nails, platinum hair, pneumatic boobs, shaved nethers and all the stuff that makes girl-on-girl entertainment 'pleasurable' to the male view. ;)

Yeah, I got those questions too. Don't bow down to the naysayers: you're just perfect the way you are, especially since you are open about it with your partner (as I am).

Good for you. And again: best of British for the baby unicorn. :)

Fuck yeah. That was actually the point I was going to make in my original post, but I thought 'so bloody obvious' so changed it to my other niggling doubt over this bill. NO ONE should have to go through the ringer to get the morning-after; just ... no one at all.

Not me: just upvoted you because I've been there too. x

Just wanted to send you a big hug. Don't go changing, and don't hide in the closet because that is not where you belong. x

We could be twins. Thank you for writing this. x

Been there, lived that. It's not fun.

Oh god ... you worked there? You're on the 'front line', as it were. Commiserations.

Thanks for the background.

Yes, this. (And also — because I know it won't spoil it for you — Brianna being the 'next in line' — so to speak — with the pearls, also confirms her strength etc). You know what I mean. ;)

Yes, yes: this!

Ohhhhhhh if wishing made it so. Sigh!

Um ... how are women going to prove they've been sexually assaulted? Do they have to show up at one of these federally-funded pill providers clutching a police report?

It does, yes! Go you. :)

Well, I've always refused to be pigeonholed and I guess I'm super lucky that my gay friends pretty much accept me for what I am, but it wasn't always easy. The relationship I was in before my current one was with a woman (we lived together) and she HATED me telling people I wasn't 'gay', but instead was bi (not that I…