It's also possible that for whatever reason he thought the child's life would be horrendous in the new circumstances. I'm not excusing it, but some people behave in very strange ways when they're depressed. My mother always said she didn't understand people who killed themselves but didn't take their children with…

You are not the only one who thought this. Though I confess nothing.

If it were me and one of my little brothers (when they're not 10 and 7, that is) I'd stay well out except for saying "hey! D says you've got a girlfriend. nice one. boring big sister says make sure you're using condoms, and don't feel any pressure to have sex before you're ready!" My family are very open about this…

Nothing is wrong with you. When other people act like assholes, it's never because there's something wrong with the person they're being an asshole to.

It's possible to find more than one thing horrifying at once, fyi.

Speak entirely for yourself. I LIKE the pill I'm on. No periods, no side effects, and I have a 12-hour window should I forget to take one.

Iunno. Much less to worry about.

But how did she know they belonged to someone else?! I'm tattooing mine with my name and address right now, just in case!

Sadly, they very well might.

That's not what I said though. I said based on the information you said you had (that she ate cupcake batter and watched TV a lot) drawing those conclusions was a bigoted thing to do. And it was.

No. You do not know ANYTHING about this child based on that. You can make assumptions that (frankly) make you look like a douche, but you don't KNOW anything about anyone involved. From the information you have.

WE ONLY HAVE THREE AND A HALF INTERNETS LEFT!

Wait... I didn't even SAY starring! Who are you even arguing with?

So you have an issue with my exact semantics, but you take my point that actors are still very involved in animated films? Excellent.

I hate to crush your dreams, but people actually play the characters in Pixar films. They frequently act out scenes and the animation is modelled on them. Also the voices. (You didn't think it was the tiny cartoon people talking did you?)

Definitely in the right direction! :)

Can we assume her life isn't in danger at the time? 'Cause, y'know, perspective an' that.

You're better than they are. I'm sorry that you encountered some of their bile and it impacted you so horribly.

All this made me want to do is cut my hair.

Movie was fabulous. Effie was perfect. I cried like a baby for at least half of it. 'Nuff said.