What a couple agrees to in their relationship is really their business. I have a problem with the word "turf". Perhaps she said it in jest. *still cringes*

I didn't get spanked. My dad kicked the shit out of me for the most minor infractions and my household was very violent growing up. Things are better now and I love my parents, but I am fucked up. Years later, I STILL have the classic flinch reaction whenever someone around me moves a little too quickly. I get so…

I um...do all of these things.

That one is raaaaaaawr!

There is a whole world of wrong with that status, suffrage being the biggest wrong of all.

My reaction exactly.

While we're at it:

This song will never leave my head today. Thank you!

You had me at "YOU CAN ADD YOUR OWN CAT."