They’re not demanding the victim’s families pay the legal cost. They’re demanding the people who initiated an unreasonable lawsuit against them pay the cost of that lawsuit.

The article is misleading.

That’s exactly what I was thinking - the lawyers who encouraged these people to file suit against the theater should be made to pay these costs.

Please, don’t be a sore winner. It was a surprisingly tough campaign, someone had to win, and the person who crossed the finish line, to her credit, was Clinton. Most of us are now gearing up to stop Trump. Complaining about how your team won is not helping that effort. It never helps.

Yeah, people’s perspectives tend to change once you use misrepresentations to justify your supporters’ use of misogyny and threats and then refuse to concede after you’ve lost.

i shame-listen to delilah.

My hairdresser used to put Sweet n Low in my hair color to tone down the burning if my scalp looked like it was going to be sensitive. I actually would try to schedule my appointments around my period.

I literally just had this whole conversation at the hairdresser’s today and it was super vague, because I have no freaking clue about hair language or colouring subtleties, so this article was epically well-timed. As soon as the last piece of red henna gets left on the cutting room floor, I am printing this out and…

Fuck black hair dye. I’m usually platinum, but wanted some black on the underneath of my hair (what can I say, I was going through a phase). My colorist friend begged me not to do it, but I went through with it anyway and it took A YEAR AND A HALF of bleaching to finally get it out. It went from orange to copper to…

it’s never too late my dawg

I think going from red to anything else is the worst. I used to dye my hair red and it took a lot more time and money to maintain so now I just go dark brown.

This is actually a question they ask you before you’re allowed to complete the purchase of fishnets. You also can’t by bras in any other color than sad grandma beige.

Obviously! She skipped over the “never appear to be anything but a broken shell” chapter in “How to be a Rape Victim".

I think that promiscuity is actually a fairly common coping mechanism for sexual assault victims...

I swear to dog, if you dig down into these attitudes it always boils down to a modern day ducking. A woman, even if the only reason you know her name is because she was the victim of a crime, is only truly innocent if she dies. If she lives, she’s still a witch and it’s somehow all her fault.

I should have made this clear - he does not have MS in the book. He is a quadriplegic who has severe issues (other than the paralysis). For example, his body cannot regulate temperature and he is frequently getting infections. He is constantly uncomfortable and in pain. There are all sorts of other issues, but my…

It started getting nastier in the lead-up to the New York primary (around the time he called her “unqualified”) and has stayed that way since.

I’m suuuuuper-proud of all these folks who would have handled this situation so perfectly! They would have left a note or made a call, oh yes they would have!

I hope you’re feeling better now. {{hugs}}

Not everyone handles pressure in the same ways. I dropped out of my ENTIRE LIFE just like this in 1994. My parents looked for me for two weeks and I was safe and sound... on the other side of the country.