Oh, I agree. That's the point: the women who subjectively assess their partners' habits as abnormal are the one's who are not content. They're not being told "this is what's normal — does your partner watch more or less porn than this?" Instead, they're using "addiction" and "abnormal" in a subjective,…

Yeah, co-signed. There are really interesting theoretical issues about what addiction is, and it's harder to address those the more the word gets co-opted.

I think it is true. The women are using those words in a manner that carries a negative connotation. They're not saying "my bf watching a lot of porn" in the way your bf might say "yumpopink reads a lot." Rather, they're saying "my bf watches TOO MUCH porn."

Pretty Woman has this weird status as a movie that all women of all ages love. (Not that that's true, but I think a lot of people think it is — almost like it's considered a cult classic where the cult consists of all women.) And Julia Roberts is conventional and considered inoffensive. So it makes perfect sense to me…

Well, for what it's worth, I think 6'1"-6'2" is the ideal height for a guy. :)

I thought that too — that a liar would go for 5'10" because it's the first of the "tall" numbers. However, he may have thought thus: Since 5'9" isn't a tall number, she won't notice the discrepancy between tall number and short guy. There's short-short consistency.

What's really annoying is not short guys, but short guys who have a complex about it. If a guy lies about his height, he puts his date in the awkward position of feeling like she's making him self-conscious just by standing. It's really rude to put someone in that position.

Oh, they can and do lie about it hugely! 5'10" and 5'11" mean, about half the time, 5'7". It's really annoying.

This is sad. The first time I saw her she was warming up at the 2007 Visa Championships and she was so tiny, with such perfect form, that she almost didn't seem human... she looked like a marionette, a little gymnastics doll. She was startlingly good.

In the area, One Market is quite good.

Huh? Woah. Hadn't even glanced at this thread for days. Lazy girl—that's what I am. LAZY. Ha.

I get that. My assumption, perhaps misguided, was that we all know a healthy piece of chicken and an hour and a half exercise class when we see it.

SLuuuuuuuuuuTTT! Can I see ur nipples? send pic. Etc.

OldEnough2BYourMama is either trolling or making a joke. (OMG! Women have labia!)

And even if she was nippin' through a wife beater (!). Surprise!1!!! We can handle it.

"Cupp might possess views that publishers of Hustler find repugnant, but they're not nearly as offensive as the fact that more than 50 years after the women's movement began, we're still trying to silence women with dicks."

Cassie, I love you, but "Don't say I didn't warn you…" because a woman's not wearing a bra?

What about promoting greys who are saying dumb things? Is that problematic? Sometimes I do so to refute their idiocy, but I'm never sure if that's ok. I never do it with pinks, but with greys I figure, they're visible already anyway. (Obviously, it's not good to start a boring, bitchy discussion, but barring that....)

I think those are great tests! Seriously!

I think your concerns are adequately addressed in many of the comments below.