Bird and Rapinoe. Awesome individually and together. Some nice news before Tuesday’s shitshow.

Thank you for posting this, hester. Fuck this guy. Good riddance. 

Sociopaths and narcissists exist in all industries.

Yes, it too was a total shit show and Juan Pablo, cultural or otherwise, is a bit of a sexist asshole.  What’s funny, is that you might be watching the other worst season in Bachelor history.  And, not ironically, Clare is in both.  

That other Bachelorette who visited her (don’t remember her name and I do not care to look it up) was like “oh...yeah...they do smell good...” with a look of what the fuck I quarantined for this on her face haha

The scene at the end of the second episode after the preview for next week killed me haha. He was taking one of the other dudes on a tour of his room and like, showing off his shoe collection and his many face masks. He clearly knows that he’s a certain type of guy and is not afraid to make fun of himself for it. I…

I feel like the bulk of the awkwardness comes from Clare clearly not wanting to engage in the ~process~, so every non-Dale interaction feels incredibly forced.

I think knowing someone for (maybe) two weeks and referring to him as your fiancé is a bit wild though. If your friend started calling the dude she met on Tindr her fiancé after knowing him for 2 weeks and sniffing his pants in her spare time, you wouldn’t think she should slow down a bit? I totally get that she’s…

Yosef’s whole attitude towards Clare about a date he never went on was disrespectful as well as inappropriate. He “justified” this by claiming he had a daughter. Having a daughter doesn’t mean you get to trash an adult woman to her face on national tv and it doesn’t give you the free opportunity to name call and…

This is the second week in a row that this bachelorette has provided the most cringe worthy moment on television. This week it was the pool, kissing scene with Zac J. Yeah, homeboy was way out of line with the grabbing and shit but, she fo sho started the cringe with that hard stop on the kiss. Look, Zac is going to…

Clare sucks so much. Obviously she is the “star” of the show, but at the same time, all these men put their lives on hold and quarantined during a pandemic just to meet her and hopefully be able to marry her. She’s done so many things to show that she just doesn’t give a shit about any of the not-Dale guys’ time.…

BENNETT! I really didn’t think that my favorite guy would be a white, affluent finance dude who graduated from Harvard, but he really amuses me. His set during the roast sealed it for me.

I don’t remember name of this guy, but I would take him.

Be proud of yourself and your inner work.  

Ysu, you knew after Lisa’s betrayal I was gonna have something to say

Acceptance of my limits and permitting myself to set boundaries. At this late stage of my life, I’m finally letting go of the idea that I’m responsible for everything and the guilt I’ve always felt for not being able to fix all the problems, whatever they were. It’s learning to breathe more freely.

I'm letting go of my family, full of narcissists and flying monkeys. And it fills me with relief. I don't know if I'll ever be over such horrific abuse and scapegoating, but putting several countries between us feels like a step in the right direction.

It turned chilly in Northern California, and I realise (again) that sadness and mourning are sometimes necessary and offer release. We need to grieve endings, sometimes, and honor that purification within us: whether it is for a friendship that has come to an end, the demise of a once-cherished hope, or the end of a…

Been gloomy weather wise here. Lots of fog, rain and humidity (is this the new fall?). Fortunately school, all things Halloween & Cosmic yoga have kept us sane. We did manage a beach & donuts visit today tho. So that always equals happiness. Trying to hold onto every second of outside. Winter is coming (in more ways…