Until McCain actually does something, anything aside from flapping his gums but supporting that flaming bag of orange peels at the same, he can take a seat.

I keep looking for “the adult” to stop this shit or something.

I’m so sick of white people. Especially white males. And I am a white male. For the good of the country my kind need to be taken out. Don’t bother sorting good from bad, statistically speaking we’re all bad. I won’t hold a grudge if I get a cap in my ass, I’ll go down laughing and with a smile.

lol I know! I’d love to learn more languages.

This is why I had four kids I couldn’t afford with abusive men. And yet, people are incredulous and ask why I didn’t leave. Well, when I did try to leave twice, I was found and custody of my kids was threatened, that’s why.

How disgusting is it that the President of the United States is trying to pull off this long discredited Dale Carnegie bullshit on other actual world leaders?

I’m going through a lot of shit in my marriage right now and the current administration is a huge part of why I don’t want to pull the trigger on a divorce. I feel legitimately afraid what could happen to me and my son.

Intelligence doesn’t seem to be in the greatest supply in that family. An 8-year-old has NO FUCKING BUSINESS on an ATV.

I think that three legged doggie could start for the Browns.

I feel sorry for her. Absolutely. But it’s not because she is “vapid” (I don’t think she is). And I don’t think she is a “blank slate” or a “poor boo hoo victim.”

Yes, just leave a man who not only probably has an epic nightmare of a pre-nup with her but is now the most powerful delinquent narcissist in the world. I had a hard time leaving an abusive relationship with a woman half my size that I wasn’t dependent on.

It’s easy to dismiss her as “deserving it” if you’ve never had to deal with a true narcissist. This is so textbook NPD, it’s sickening.

When I decided to leave my husband I still didn’t understand how bad it had been. I knew I had to get out or he was going to quite literally drive me into a madhouse with his gaslighting, but I still didn’t GET it. My sister had her own ex, who I despised. She told me ‘your husband is 10 times worse than my ex.’ She…

“nobody’s saying she deserved it but she deserved it”

I was in an abusivd relationship and while I don’t think he had NPD (and I absolutely think Drumpf has it) gaslighting was the way I was trapped in it. Seeing Trump employ the same gaslighting bullshit in every one of his speeches has been triggering my anxiety so much over the past year. So I may be projecting, but I…

I completely agree with you, and this article is shallowly written with no depth or nuance to it. But so many people don’t really have any idea of what gas lighting does to the victim, how insidious it is, how invested the victim becomes in maintaining the relationship, and the learned helplessness that is a major…

Thank you! I was starting to feel insane being on a “feminist” website that was suddenly actively promoting “you made your bed” philosophy towards someone who, to me, is obviously a victim of abuse.

Thank you so much. I was starting to lose faith in Jez commenters... So many dismissing the abuse. :(

Research Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Narcissistic Abuse. Victims will stay in a relationship for a long period of time before even realizing what is going on. They are often being Gaslighted and made to believe that they are the crazy ones. Of course she needs to support his ideologies if this is in fact…