I had an ex where thing ended pretty amicably, still ran in the same social circles occasionally, everything seemed cool. But one night I hooked up with a guy he didn’t like, and he shouted at him “I USED TO LOVE THAT GIRL!” Like I’d been defiled, and it was a personal offense against him.

I dated a guy quite a bit older than me who didn’t bother to break up with me, just ghosted me. He treated me like shit the entire relationship, and then 2 months after I stopped hearing from him, he wants to be friends. He sent me a Flight of the Conchords video on Valentine’s Day called “Chorus of ex-girlfriends”.

WTF is a ‘very occasional friendship’?

“Very occasional friendship” = booty call.

Same. Remember the guy who dumped me at his family reunion? A few years later he came to my job (I was a waitress) to tell me he’d gotten his shit together and ask my forgiveness and generally wish me well, etc. It was all very Jesus-y, so the whole theme of his presentation was that he’d “gotten right with God” and…

The Reverse Nanny McFee of shitty boyfriends. Nowhere to be found when you want them, can’t get rid of them when you never want to see their faces again.

‘did i really hurt you that bad that you don’t even want to be my friend?’

Years ago this controlling jerk dumped me...I was devastated...a couple years later, one of those I CAN’T BELIEVE THIS HAPPENED!! — moments happened: I was looking fabulous, outside having lunch on a sunny day with my best friend...I had just bought my own condo, had an awesome new job...and who walks by but…

Ah, I see you also have experience with the ever elusive (but only when they want to be) Narcissistus Vulgaris.

This isn’t about getting back together; it’s about his desire to have contact with her whenever he wants, however he wants simply because he wants it. He doesn’t care that he divorced her via text because he did what he did because he wanted to at the time.

It’s mainly the fact he divorced her via texts yet it seems in his mind well it’s partially her fault they don’t talk when he divorced her via text.

This would not sit well with me. She obviously took the divorce much harder than him because she was the one blindsided by a text (not him). She is also single-ish, with no kids on the way right now. Meanwhile, he’s got a new “happily ever after” situation going on. He needs to stop mentioning her name to get…

Totally. I am in the camp that thinks that a lot of adult acne has hormonal causes, but the root of those causes is different for everyone.

I used to have pretty severe acne and I went on Accutane in high school to clear it up. I think there’s a more mellow version out there now because that stuff was scary in the side effects. My worst side effect was chapped lips so I was fine.

Aha! You ARE Mariah Carey!

That sounds exhausting. Looks like my occasional adult acne is here to stay! Lol

By that measure, I should look like the elephant man.

This seems like a massive safeguarding issue. I thought this was a while ago & she’s of legal age to go on telly and talk about it, but she’s only 15. Her parents would’ve had to sign consent forms for this to be broadcast. She’s not behind a screen, she’s not having her voice disguised or her words spoken by an…

It’s insane. Like I don’t even know what it is, because it’s not like he’s *that* good looking.