Good god, yes. I will definitely take a lesbian cookie. I'm with a totally awesome dude right now, so it's all good, but I'm bisexual and there have been many times when I've considered just quitting on dudes. It's not one of those "all guys are assholes" thing. It's that sometimes the gender dynamic is just too much…

Yes, I think you just hit the nail on the head.

THERE NEEDS TO BE MORE MALE ON FEMALE ORAL SEX IN PORN! Seriously, this needs to happen. Most grown men love to do it, why it's not there, I don't know. Young men get most of their information from porn -groan- it is important that they see this.

It is a danger of porn, that because one woman in a certain set of circumstances is willing to do an act, some men assume that every other woman will be willing to do that act and even not consider it a possibility that she might want to be asked. Indeed the same woman who is willing in one set of circumstances may…

It's not so much the complete & utter ubiquity of facials in porn that bothers me. It's the sheer extent to which they influence the expectations of men in real life sexual encounters.

The gender dynamic between two men is very different from the gender dynamic between a man and a woman for obvious reasons.