“looses his mojo” is classic. Only a racist would be so dumb to use an African word to refer to another Racist. What idiots.

Second that. I decided there are limits. I cut off my father from my life. I did not even invite him to my wedding. These years without his horrible voice telling me I will never amount to anything have been the best.

Well said, Lana, and same here. I’ve in my experience, after decades apart these same people start slowly back in with micro-aggressions that quickly become macro-aggressions, and they use the attempt at reconciliation as an opportunity for them to beat on you and try to prove they were right all along. That shirt!…

same. i havent had any meaningful contact with my mom in 8 years and my life is so much better because of it. the negative energy she brought into my life was not worth it anymore.

I’ll second that. I have made peace with my choice to distance myself from my father when I realized that I had been backpedaling over lines in the sand for more than half my life and for my entire adult life. He’ll always be my father, and the yardstick by which I measure myself. But he is nothing like the man I…

Relationships are investments, do not let a bad one emotionally bankrupt you. 

Unsolicited advice from someone who survived a very necessary estrangement from her own mother: beware of anyone who attempts to convince you that you should be able to look past this. I wish someone had told me 20 years ago that “blood is not thicker than safety.” Thank you and good luck.

It is absolutely disgusting that cops can legally sexually abuse women. No doubt in my mind that almost all cops who do this kind of work are eager to rape women as they please before arresting them.

They’d find other reasons.

My theory’s is that She doesn’t exist.

It sounds completely made up for the sake of his article. People with HS educations are intimidated by “soppresatta”? Tha fuck?

Exactly. Otherwise, bottle to the head.

I would’ve liked to own you,
But I’m a grad school kid,
Production ended well before,
My dissertation did.

It seems very Russian to insult someone by saying they have “weak hands”.

They were 16-year-olds — not “women” but children. I’d advise children to flee in this circumstance.

Seriously! These were 16/17 year old girls, who just endured a verbal racist assault and saw three men get killed right in front of them. The guy was still on the loose, no idea if there were accomplices with him, and pretty much everyone ran off those trains. They called one of their mothers, who came and picked them…

I wouldn’t blame her if she never wanted to perform again. This takes guts and I’m impressed

Agreed. But get ready for an influx of “yeah, that’s who we should be worried about” comments from people who can’t fathom thinking or feeling about more than one thing at a time.

I play the flute professionally.