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Yes and no. I feel like I have a shared culture heritage with many people of similar ethnic back ground. But I don’t think I would call it white culture. That idea isn’t something I can really wrap my head around, that you can say everyone in this huge, diverse, group spread over the whole planet would share the exact

On behalf of the basic bitches, uggs yes, spice pumpkin anything yes, dating guys named Chad or Tristan yes. But right-wing neo-nazis, my daddy got me this job, but I am pretty, rich and lots of people want to fuck me so it’s okay.... that’s a hard no. Seriously, we all got together and voted at mani-pedi girls night

More and more I feel like I am in the first chapter of a novel by Margaret Atwood where she’s explaining how the world ended up being so completely fucked.

I think that is just the thing, most women and many children and some men experience some type of sexual violence but it rarely defines them or becomes some larger then life motivating factor. For real people sexual violence is often just a horrible thing that happened to them, one small part of the many things that

Ugh and sadly there is something about aging that just makes people gullible. My mother a very intelligent women is now at an age where she believes anything that is on facebook. Luckily she asks me about this stuff “No mom I don’t think Walmart is giving away 100 dollar gift cards to every customer. Why? Because it

We considered giving up gifts, but it’s just my parents and two adult children, so with out the present ritual, we just eat and stare at each other all day.

Oh they know exactly what they were doing. I would imagine a big part of this is that they will also seized property, businesses and bank accounts,

Since she’s is a woman and an immigrant who’s confronting publicly a government who hates both those things I truly worry for her. I just hope she has a ton of kick ass lawyers.

Ugh I hate that, someone once said that to me and I just lost it and started listing all the ways that might no work out “What if your kids selfish and won’t care for you, or lives across the world, has a mental, physical illness and can’t care for you, is poor, dies before you, has a spouse who hates you, just turns

Can you imagine how people with kids would react if someone said that to them. “Oh you’re happy you have kids? Well just wait you’ll change your mind!”

You have the best ideas!

I laughed so hard at that my dog gave me a dirty look and moved off the couch to get away from me.

Omg that is so cute, I would love to be able to make something like that. Tried knitting once. Ended with me swearing, stuffing everything in a bag and throwing it in the back of my closet. But I might have to drag it out again this winter and try again.

Ugh my brother was also being all Pro-Trump the other day. I am choosing to believe that it was only to get a rise out of me and he is not actually an idiot.

I worry about this, my male dog is vengeance pee’er. Not kidding if he’s po’d cause I ignored him or am late walking him etc. he will pee on something to punish me. So I am so paranoid that my house smells like piss. If you were my friend I would want you to mention it, in a tackful loving way.

Not a puppy or kitten, but I hope it helps.

Yep, I kinda go into a rage when people with no experience, a high functioning child or who have a really good support system (usually family or money) talk about how having children with disabilities is a blessing.

I am also perplexed by the idea that as a single women who has had sex outside of marriage I am thinking about “waking up next to a stranger, contracting a sexually transmitted infection or missing a period” 24/7. Is this really what religious/conservative people think single women’s lives are? I feel like there is

This reminds me of people who blame secular culture for turning their kids gay or metal music for their kids suicide. Why do people feel the need to do this? Is it just about finding someone to blame? I understand it can make you feel better, but it doesn’t change what happened. Sometimes life just doesn’t turn out

I am iffy on trigger warnings, on one hand it’s understandable to give general warning about violence and sexual content. But I went to a play (which was based on a true story) with a friend and it was mainly a comedy, but at one point is discussed sexual abuse it’s important to understanding why the characters acted