Holy shit! Erykah Badu is the lady rejected by the reporter at 1:27!!

Prettttty sure that's Erykah Badu in the Pix 11 "laBUFF" clip, right?

Why do you feel judged for something that is really out of your control? There is no one universal trick to "make yourself" have an orgasm, YMMV. Some of these comments are out of line, I admit. I don't think you have anything "wrong" with you, especially if you are not having orgasms on a normal basis.

Yeah, shaming a woman for not being able to orgasm is about as helpful (and as sex-positive), as calling her "frigid." Somehow, when it comes to sex, everything is always our fault.

Can I make this the best comment? You said it so well.

I'm 35, enjoy sex but have never had an orgasm - even solo. And trust me, I've tried, partners have tried and half the Ann Summer's catalogue has tried, but I just can't get there. I've become very adept at faking, because sometimes the guy just won't stop trying and I have other things to do. Like sleep. TBH by 30 I…

Exactly.

Okay...I never put two separate comment threads on an article, but I have to this time.

FUCKING THANK YOU.

My mother's best friend would always buy me an article of clothing that was a size too small, even though she had literally every opportunity to ask my mother my clothing size. I eventually came to the conclusion that she was doing it on purpose because every year we would go through the rigmarole of her getting me to…

So my husband of one year bought me NOTHING for Christmas, not even a single rose or chocolate. Although he didn't buy his siblings/parents gifts either. I bought him an expensive GPS. However, in the past six months he bought 2 friends in Mexico (his home country) used $80-$100 iPhones without them asking for one.…

As a knitter, I'm so happy to see all of the sock love here. Getting socks (or any knitting) from me means you're on my Ultimate List. I don't knit for just anyone, and I have to be pretty certain that you're not going to be disappointed by something that took me hours/days to make.

Hand sewn quilts I will take all day long.

Or, instead of making fun of these gifts, you might consider that maybe, these people didn't have very much money. These are all relatively inexpensive gifts. These can possibly be gifts from someone who can't afford much, but they wanted to give you at least something because they care about you. They didn't want…

The candle one makes no sense, CANDLES ARE AN AWESOME GIFT, YO.

Dude, it's not Christmas without socks and pajamas! Also I got my work BFF Soft Kitty slippers and she wore them around the office all day. Slippers are awesome! So is my work BFF.

You forgot: A bejeweled picture frame with one or two jewels missing, when the empty picture frame was horrible enough of a gift when it was fully jeweled. The photos I give a shit about are in gallery frames and hung on the wall.

When our friend was a Cistercian monk he brought us a monk-made fruitcake. Those holy men were not shy with the rum and it was GLORIOUS.

Thanks for the addition:

Yeah, I tried OKC (and to my shame, Tinder) for a couple months. Closed them all off in horror. Currently developing a sweet and romantic relationship from an old acquaintance from college that developed organically.