The cat on the counter was hissing before the other cat jumped up there.

A few notes. You use the word "murder" in your question. Why? You start with the assumption of sure guilt of murder.

It's been said, but... BOTH cats totes know what the deal is - note the ears. And the scoping out beforehand. That was intentional bitchery. God, I love cats.

I don't know what you're talking about...? If she has a diagnosis for insomnia and isn't just someone that drinks a shitload of coffee and stays up late and does shit to deliberately fuck with her sleeping patterns, then it is absolutely a medical excuse.

Yes, this is very real. My husband has it. (He also walks and eats in his sleep.) I thought he was just trying to get it on with me late at night until he had no recollection of it the next day. And he once told me a story from his single days of doing it to a girl he didn't know well and her becoming understandably…

I honestly think this is relatively common. It's at least common to roll into/grope someone in bed while asleep and I've definitely woken up to a partner initiating sex and then had to wake him up. Friends have told me the same thing has happened to them.

He's the one who chose to hand her the ring while on some sort of weird rickety paddle boat. I feel like they shouldn't get married because they are both pretty doofy.

Exactly. She knocked it out of his hand. She probably felt horrible about it considering that look he gave her.

If you KNOW the answer is no you should definitely say so (or defer politely); doing otherwise is cruel. But I can also imagine genuinely thinking "yes" in a combination of adrenaline/panic/pressure and then realizing it's really a "no"; while it sucks to have to flip that, better day of than any further down the…

That's the problem with elaborate, public proposals. I feel like there would be SO much pressure to say yes. Also, a proposal should never, ever come as a total surprise. Decide you wanna spend your lives together. THEN propose at some point.

Probably happens a lot more than you'd think when people turn proposals into a public spectacle. How could anyone really say no when a bunch of people are watching? That's why these stunt proposals are the worst.

I kinda get that- I think if a guy I didn't really want to marry asked me to marry him in front of a bunch of people and it would end in extreme embarrassment to him if I said no, I would say yes publicly then once in private tell him that "I'm not there. Here's your ring back. Sorry dude."

"Oh my god. Oh my god," he repeated, looking up at his intended— a vast horror building behind his tear-filled eyes— wondering how it could have all changed so suddenly; how it would never be like it was; whether he could ever love her again. "Oh my god," he said once more, softer, before slipping away beneath the…

THEN WHAT HAPPENED?????

She did. Never mind that the majority of supporting characters are related to Abbie in some way and not Ichabod. Never mind the fact that the show clearly starts from Abbie's point of view. Never mind that she's the more capable of the two characters (considering he's out of his time and often out of his depth). She's…

Thanks for breaking this down since I was kind of too angry about it to think this critically. I think she also called Nicole Beharie, who is the lead on Sleepy Hollow, a sidekick. Seriously, fuck that noise.

Yeah, I think this campaign isn't so much about stopping sexual assault as about stopping *rape culture.* Obviously crime will pretty much always exist, but sexual assault is a crisis because so many of the "us" in "it's on us" are always willing to entertain all the reasons that it might not be real or might not be…

The presidency ages people quicker than anything else. Just look at photos of Clinton or Dubya from their inauguration to the end of their terms.

Rapists are probably not going to stop raping people no matter how much we urge them to (unless they're 'accidental rapists' who don't get it?!...i call bullshit). While it is their fault and 'on them', educating bystanders who care and can help given the right tools is probably more effective.

A PSA isn't going to have much impact on someone with a broken moral compass. The hope is that the PSA will influence those with morals to help and protect one another from those who are unreachable. Too many otherwise moral people are hesitant to intervene — this hopes to spur them to action.