“It is possible to criticize another woman’s version of feminism and still be a feminist yourself.”

Yeah, I think that women’s underwear is more overtly sexual than men’s underwear. And yes, that could be just my male opinion and my male gaze. A woman can leave her panties, even the granniest ones ever, in a man’s apartment and that can be erotic. A man doing the same thing is just kind of ridiculous. Apparently,…

I dunno, like maybe a sexy shimmery little camisole or something.

Yeah, pretty much. I am not understanding why the other commenter did not seem to appreciate my comments at all. In Bruce Springsteen’s video for “I’m on Fire” he’s a mechanic wearing a tshirt and jeans covered in motor oil smears. Intention = hawt, and yeah, mission accomplished. It is hard to design a woman’s outfit…

I guess, whatever. I notice that other people are steadily “starring” my posts and no one else is jumping in and arguing against me.

When I say “plausible deniability,” I am not suggesting that wearing sexy clothes or wanting to be sexy is some sort of crime or something to be ashamed of.

If lingerie is an art form, is it possible for a person to criticize the artist? As in, “I do not agree with these choices you have made?” Yeah, if sexual intercourse is on the agenda, I have wondered how lingerie plays a part. I guess I imagined the woman wears it, it is quickly removed, and then she puts it back on…

I am a man and you are a woman, and we clearly have different experiences and perspectives. I see the men in that CK ad as “I’m just doing my thing, and if you think I am sexy, that’s your opinion.” I think that female underwear is more overtly sexual, so a female underwear ad is also more overtly sexual. Again, that…

Alright, so he wasn’t outright disrespecting your lingerie, it was more like he was not appreciating it.

I think that men can be perceived as “accidentally sexy” whereas a woman in sexy clothes is more clearly trying to be sexy. People see shirtless photos of Jim Morrison and many people will think he is sexy, but Jim could say, “this is just me being men, if you think I am sexy, that’s your thing.” A man in a suit and…

I remember years ago Jezebel had an article on Christina Hendricks where she said in a magazine article something like, “She is tired of being treated as just a big sexy body,” a lot of Jezebel commenters were taking her for task for being on that magazine cover wearing lingerie and holding a snake. I cannot find this…

You say your husband does not respect your lingerie. What does that mean? How does he not respect it?

I am aware that “Not all men, yes all women” originated in the conversation about street harassment. But I really think that it applies to a wide variety of gender issues. All women have anxiety about their bodies. Not all men do, but the ones who do get hit really hard. All women have anxiety about social…

The guys who criticize women for wearing lipstick are assholes who probably hate themselves. I would never think that. There is a woman I work with who I strongly suspect is reapplying her makeup for my benefit. I think that is so cute. A female friend told me that a guy she dated asked her to stop dressing up and be…

No, there is no problem. I do not feel offended or anything. I was just a little bit confused. To clarify, I am not shocked at all that she is injured. Other people are shocked that she took an uber to the hospital instead of an ambulance. I am not shocked by that as ambulances are expensive and should really be…

Did you intend on replying to my post? I generally agree, and I am not surprised that she was injured.

Really? I find that interesting. I am a 32 year old man. I remember in college, people would call women “fake,” for trying to be nice and friendly. Looking back, that is really unfair as what does it mean to be “real”? Aloof and standoffish? I think that women face greater social consequences for not being at a…

I think that the opposite of trying hard is just being cool. A try hard is a person who wants to be perceived as cool, and fails. Boy bands now don’t want to look like try-hards. 1990's boy bands had elaborate performance with down to the second dance choreography. Current boy bands like One Direction do not do that,…

$1000 for an ambulance? That is insane. I wonder if paramedics ever feel guilty? I wonder if they ever transport people and think, “Man, this guy probably should have taken an uber?”

Yeah, it was quite generous for Coldplay to share the stage with Beyoncé and Bruno Mars, but perhaps it was not their decision, and it may have been against their wishes. It seems cruel for the other commenter to call Chris Martin a “loser.” Would she call the drummer for Coldplay a “loser”? Probably not. But I guess…