No, I do not hold that standard, but it seems as if this article does.

Heterosexual sex is without question easier for women than for men. Many people do not even consider whether a woman can be good or bad in bed. A woman can lie down and do nothing and have sex. It seems terrible to say, but a woman does not even have to be alive to have sex. Yes, heterosexual sex is trickier and more…

I do think it is just plain true that a man needs to do more work if they are to both orgasm from vaginal penetration. It is possible for a man to orgasm if the woman just lies there. It is also possible for a man to orgasm if they both just lie there. Currently, on Brigham Young University campus, there is a thing…

Yeah, those guys are assholes and should expect to get dumped.

A) yeah, blowjobs are harder than eating pussy. Elsewhere, I comment that that is true, and also heterosexual sex is harder for men than for women.

Well, you’re a woman, and I am a man. But it seems that a lot of women when they first start getting intimate with a man, or with a new man, are kind of shy and intimidated and are less likely to have orgasms. I know that when I was first naked with a girl, I was so repressed I was unable to get an erection.

Yeah, I went a little bit off of the deep end there, didn’t I?

To be honest, I never critique blowjobs. I am usually so thankful to get them, I don’t want to criticize. I have a lot of preferences, but I don’t vocalize them, or I wonder if she would be offended. If I was with a steady girlfriend, I would be more likely to vocalize my preferences. That’ll be the day.

Well, I guess you’re really great. Some men might orgasm before he got a chance to really get a grasp of her needs. At that point, it is time to start with the oral and finger action. This OP said that after vaginal sex she tells men “you didn’t get the job done,” which I think is unkind phrasing to do before he…

Once I was horny teenager reading Cosmo sex tips for masturbation material. One piece of advice if a man is taking really long to orgasm from a blowjob is to stop sucking for a moment, and seductively say, “I want your sperm.”

When something is clearly harder for another person, I think that it is best to avoid using phrases like, “there is no excuse to be bad at this,” and “you didn’t get the job done.” Also, this article says that men can get women to orgasm likely through using their fingers, oral sex, and deep kissing. Yeah, those are…

Yeah, the first quotation in this article said “genital stimulation, oral sex, and deep kissing.” I think “genital stimulation” is a little vague to be understood to mean “finger banging.” But, yeah, the finger usage was obviated elsewhere in the article.

As a man it really disappoints me to read things like “men are bad at sex,” and “there are no excuses for a man to be bad at sex,” because sex really is harder for men than it is for women. A woman could lie there like a dead fish and do nothing, and the man would still have an orgasm, she probably wouldn’t. Is she…

If a man and a woman have vaginal sex and then fellatio, the man will probably orgasm both times. He should be grateful to the woman, but she should not be particularly proud of herself. It’s not that hard for men to orgasm. In fact, it is entirely possible that the woman could have approached both activities with a…

Yeah, I guess I “missed” all of the things you asked about. Your subsequent comments were published one minute before my comment.

Is your man trying? Is he receptive to input? If not, how “nice” is he really?

So, 65% of hetero women orgasm, 86% of lesbians, but only 66% of bisexual women? Why? Are bisexual women in fact sleeping with more men than women? Possibly.

You know, most women seem to strongly want more communicative men, and you are strangely scoffing at men who are opening communication.

Well, how do you tell them? I am a man, and yeah, you probably should say something, but there is a right way and a wrong way. If you ask for additional oral or hand stimulation, that’s great. But if you say, “You didn’t get the job done, I’m leaving,” that’s the wrong way.

I am a man and this kind of rubbed me the wrong way. And there is no excuse for heterosexual women to be bad at rubbing men. Lol. I kid, I kid.