I am a man. You say that, and that is cool, but I googled “shocked my husband masturbates” and found numerous things on google.

Well, I don’t think you’re being serious, despite using the word “literally.” If Justin Timberlake masturbated 3x daily, that would be shocking. I think a lot of wives and girlfriends would be shocked and disappointed by how frequently their men masturbate.

Well, I don’t think it was a good joke. So, apparently incel and virgin shaming is ok. Fine, but I wonder if it is possible to write a “jezebel approved” slut shaming joke.

Most soloish articles are written by women. Very often they are women lamenting some problem, that would be significantly worse if she were a woman. An example of this is the article written by a woman who blames her singledom on her introversion, but is extremely picky. She holds men to 5 minute auditions, which they…

I think that women are guiltier of that than men by quite a large margin.

If I understand you correctly, I probably agree with you. I think that men are not considered truly men if they are single and sexually frustrated. Nowadays, women are still respected if they choose to be single, or if they are single not by choice, which honestly is pretty rare. A man can be accomplished, but if he…

Yeah, I think that the ultra-specificity of his Tinder search ruined his point. He visited a new city, had a super specific Tinder request, and got nothing. That is meaningless. If he had said that he used Tinder for a month and got no success, that would be more interesting.

I think it is incredibly possible for a man to make having sex a priority and still get nothing. This man is not a good example. He is a very handsome man with a cool job, he should be doing better. To be honest, I think that a lot of sexually frustrated men would have done better before the internet. The internet…

I actually did not understand that. How is Deadspin an Incel Lifestyle blog? If that is a valid comment, one could say a lot of negative things about Jezebel as well.

He is not a virgin, he is just in a dry spell.

I also think he does not think he is owed sex. His article isn’t very good, but it is part of the Washington Post’s Soloish daily series. So, I think that his topic is fair game. Most of the articles are written by women who have some pretty specific laments. I doubt if Jezebel covered those articles, people would be…

It seems the guy does want a relationship, he just goes about it the wrong way. Yeah, he also tried Tinder in a new city. I think that his very disjointed article is trying to show how men often have difficulty securing a relationship, a date, and a Tinder interaction. Also, I am reluctant to suggest that people do…

Honestly, you should check out some other Soloish articles. It is a daily feature of the Washington Post. There are some staggeringly specific and groan inducing articles on there. Check it out.

I really doubt that single guys are masturbating more than anyone thinks possible. However, people might be surprised at how often men in relationships masturbate.

Yeah, I read Soloish regularly and I get where you are coming from. It seems that so many of the articles are ultra-specific perspectives from women whose problems are either truly bizarre or easily fixable. The lesbian who regularly barfs on dates, the woman who blames her singledom on her introversion yet is also…

Yeah, maybe they should have given it the catch all title of “American Low Down Dirty Shame.” Also, I always wonder if other nations have so many titles with their nationality? German Gangster, German Crime Story, German Pie. I doubt it. Or they only do it to reference the original movie, I know there is a Hong Kong…

paragraphs are better. Sometimes my friends text me one sentence at a time, and I respond quickly to their first sentence. But then their 3rd sentences, changes my answer, so I have to hurry up and text back, writing, “disregard my first tex.” Paragraphs for the win! But not tooooo long.

Yeah, I worked at Macy’s in Southern California for the summer of 2006. They scheduled as few people as possible, so on busy days, it was a nightmare. Sometimes I would have a long line of customers, and the next guy in line would want me to go help him with shoes. What should I do? Just abandon the register and the…

Hi, this is an old article, and I am not sure if you are still on Jezebel. but I am a man and I agree. I think that women pretty much always have the power in dating. Women can be passive and accept or reject men as they come. Women can approach men if they choose, or do things nonverbally to entice a man to approach.…

That is interesting. Yes, music and fashion have not changed THAT much in the past 20 years. But technology has been revolutionized. The internet matured, social networking, smart phones, apps. I remember in “Scream” a cop asks a kid, “Why do you need a cell phone?” and Tupac rapped that cops get jealous when they see…