It’s really to hard work in, “Honey can I dress up in your underwear while you spank me with a flip-flop?” into normal maritial conversation. So I hear.

Hipster sex play?

“Honey, I... I want you to tie me up!”

It’s all fun and games until “it would be a real turn on if you pretended to be my mom/adult daughter/sister/cousin...wait, not my real family members....just...wait, let me expl...bye.”

Nah, the worst is having a partner who is so insecure that they feel the need to critique whether or not the fantasy in question is edgy and hip enough.

How do you tell your special someone that you want them to “play your rusty trombone?”