Why is it an either/or situation? If you're a humanist, you're also a feminist (unless you're a very strange humanist who hates women, but I don't think that's likely.) You can be a feminist without being Secular Humanist. There are plenty of Christian, Muslim, and Jewish feminists, so I think you can be humanist…

That was totally me. For years, I said that I couldn't be a feminist because I thought men and women should be equal. It took a feminist friend to wake me up and say, "You know that's the point, right?"

thank you for that, I was just about to say. but... at least he didn't say 'Golden Labradors'?

Is that really a thing people cluck over? I'm terrified of having a baby because (among other things) it opens up a whole new world of judgement.

So, this is my own very limited experience. But: A sick deer ended up in my front yard. Animal control came, and said "We can't move it while it's alive." Called city police and within thirty seconds of pulling into my driveway, one of the cops shot the deer in the head. With a shotgun. Twice.

Amen.
My now-husband and I went to our first friend's wedding several years ago. We both had full time jobs and I withdrew $100 cash to put in the envelope because my gift was more of a cute thing than a useful thing. He said "That seems like a bit much for a present, I usually give people like twenty bucks and a…

1) Chewing loudly. (Really, I have misophonia. I turn into the Hulk when I can hear chewing. I scope out movie seats based on what snack foods the people behind me have. No to popcorn, yes to hotdogs.) I married my husband because he's a quiet chewer. Didn't find out until after the wedding that he's a chronic…

I have not. How are your balls? This is an actual question. My husband is thinking of getting one. I want to use mirena, but he wants to be extra sure. And it freaks me out thinking of him getting cut open.

you also have to bathe kids, from what I hear. better not get any of those, either. just to be on the safe side.

Jesus= Do whatever you want Monday through Saturday. Wash the sin away on Sunday.

Maybe I should have my husband watch some tutorials. So far, he only notices if I'm wearing lipstick. (Even a heavy cat-eye flies right by him)

I used to work as a bather at a grooming shop. There's a secret to get all the shedding undercoat out when you bathe the dog. WASH TWICE AND USE CONDITIONER! And there's no replacement for a professional-type dryer.

I drive a '91 Miata. And yes, I get defensive about its girly stereotype. But I don't do much to help, since I love driving around with the top down in a sundress and pink sun glasses.

You'll run into problems no matter the color of your child's skin. My sister and I are both adopted. My parents (adopted, but I've never called them anything other than mom and dad) are Irish/English. My sister is biologically Hawaiian and French. I am biologically German. She and I both had small moments where we…

dude, I'm in joco! I think I stole all the liberal friends from you! we exist,I promise

Hahaha, I'm using that simile next time my husband gives me shit for not liking scotch that much.

That would be great! I have a couple of real-world friends who I know would be in.

No judgement! I lived with my parents for two years after college. But it does get tricky when you do weird "young people" things. The time I came home in hooker heels and my dad said "What's that about?" I answered, "Pole dance class bachelorette party!" He said "Just don't tell me these things!"

Is that why scotch is supposed to be good? Thanks, but I'll keep my dirt in my flower pots.

I think I can manage that! I live in KC, so it's not quite as backwards as other places. But it still bothers me.