I pity any women you trick into dating you for a short time.

You make tons of assumptions based on things not stated in the letter so I can do the same. So I will assume you are an asshole who is always looking for something to be outraged about and that no one has the right to an opinion if it is something you disagree.

I was having dinner one night with a friend of mine, and the table next to us was having a very similar conversation; gold-digger this, and Instagram slut that. Rinse, repeat. She looked incredibly annoyed, so, with a smile, I asked her, “Hey, how’d that date of yours go the other night?”

“What if r/incels was right?” Saved you some words there.

I was on a flight recently and this guy in the window seat hit on the lady in the middle seat for about 4 straight hours, barely pausing to take a breath while talking about himself incessantly. I wish I’d seen this before my flight. Perfect solution. 

It’s not her fault.

Matching is the point of the service and messaging is a feature to help you connect. It doesn’t guarantee anything can or will happen, just like real life. Maybe she’ll let you buy her a drink, maybe not. She is not required to respond to anyone in a certain timeframe, or at all. As the Doc…

if by therapy you mean smoking a big fatty of some good herb and maybe a stiff drink before dinner next time so that you can let go of your inhibitions and laugh hysterically at their inane conversation and maybe mock them a little bit till they feel stupid enough to quiet down, then yeah that’s a good call... 

I’m married to a physician who loves to regale us with gross medical stories at the dinner table. This delights our children and disgusts me, so it’s a win-win for her.

Mr Tooty and I went out to our celebration place-a very elegant, very expensive restaurant with impeccable service and food. We were seated next to a table of 2 couples, 60+, obviously well off. One man was apparently a doctor and he started to regale the table-as well as the rest of the room-with a story of a patient…

I’ve talked to a lot of people over the years who have interpreted Fight Club...well, not as intended, let’s just say. Coincidence or not, they were all guys. It’s like all they heard what that speech where Brad Pitt talks about how they were lied to and how society and media is to blame, and the rest of the movie…

Um, no, it’s not her fault if people “lash out” maybe don’t be an angry little baby about everything dudes.

“She was obviously tuning out her husband so she could listen to the people at the next table. Not only was she rude to those diners she was rude to her husband. She probably stiffed the server on the tip too since she was so outraged at other peoples private conversation.”

But she explained why she’s not messaging them back, did you read her letter? She doesn’t have a responsibility to dudes she’s never met. And this is filtering out the assholes, so, good.

It is possible that it’s may be unavoidable. Such as:

This was a birthday dinner with a spouse, so it’s too late for the dating advice (or too early).
The problem seems to have been the man reminding her of her dad at the next table, afflicted himself with an over-developed sense of self-regard.
Therapy will probably still help, but I think that in this case, violence was…

Direct Method: Yell at him to shut up. If he gets lippy, stab him in the face with a spoon.

It seems to me it’s well within the restaurant’s rights to ask the guys to either quiet down or leave. There’s no good reason to leave the well-behaved customers hanging in the wind just because they’re busy or crowded. Get the manager.

Dating sites are terrible for hetero men and women for precisely this reason (I cant speak to gay dating sites)

fuck you, dude . that is why you have to jerk off in a sock and be alone forever

Dating someone who idolizes Patrick Bateman would be somewhat terrifying