sorry the even then it would be weird part was supposed to be two different scenarios, one where the person being cheated on is a bigot/abuser and then with cheating in general.

Were they? Also often enough women initiate sex.

They probably should’ve broken up ages ago. Cheating is only acceptable IMO when you’re cheating on a bigot/abuser. But then I’m exactly who you cheat with if you’re cheating on a bigot or an abuser. And even then it’s weird as fuck if you stay with them without disclosing and discussing any of your infidelity and…